Stop going to clubs

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Ok-Orange7146 · 2025-09-30T16:32:28+00:00

Just cuz it doesn’t work for YOU doesn’t mean it won’t and doesn’t work for others.

Stop saying things that don’t work for YOU and applying to others. Don’t try to bring us into your lame life.

hunterpua · 2025-09-30T17:10:55+00:00

This is a personal preference thing.

I don't believe any setting is required to meet girls. If you don't like clubs and prefer bars, all good. You do you.

But it's inaccurate to say that all you can rely on in a loud club is your looks.

When you really understand game and don't just have a rolodex of canned lines and routines then you can just translate everything to dance.

Social Proof = Dancing with many people

Approach invitation = Pointing, nodding, smiling, or gesturing at her from a distance and if she reacts positively she wants to dance with you

Comfort = Matching her and dancing in sync, also reacting similarly to certain tracks that come on

Teasing/Messing with her = stuff like sticking your fingers into her belt loops when you're dancing together to move her around so she dances weird and you jokingly make faces like, "what's wrong with this chick?"

Qualification = You challenge her to copy or top your dance moves, or if you're good at partner dances like Bachata, you lead her and see if she can keep up.

Flirting = Dancing with her in a provocative way then pushing her away, maybe even dancing with someone else for a bit if she's in a group

Sexual Escalation = Easiest one, sexual dancing. Most of us at least have an idea of what that looks like

I've kissed girls on dancefloors before even exchanging names.

If you go through all that stuff and then motion for her to move somewhere to talk for a bit then the conversation is mostly just you guys figuring out how to go home with each other.

You can build things up on the dancefloor to the point where you can just take her hand and lead her, without talking at all, and she'll just follow you.

In some clubs I've even made a pitstop at their handicap toilet or just somewhere more hidden, to mess around with each other some more.

I've had moments with girls where the very first time we say, "nice to meet you" is when she's holding my dick and I have a finger or two inside her.

ThatDarnSmell · 2025-09-30T18:43:22+00:00

I went to them regularly from ages 21-23 and occasionally from 24-25. But the novelty really wore off by around 22. Far too loud, having to shoot to have conversation, etc. Plus I do not drink and don't like to date others who drink.

Kadabrium · 2025-09-30T18:47:38+00:00

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Uncle2Drew · 2025-09-30T19:02:28+00:00

Girls are more fun in the club

xwxcda · 2025-09-30T19:21:44+00:00

25 years ago it was clubs, now it’s raves

poly_nerdy_panda · 2025-09-30T19:22:09+00:00

yep rarely pulled at a club but at a bar pulled way more,, girls DTF at a bar and friendly too.. club girls tend to sheld more and cock block more

daydreamingtime · 2025-09-30T19:29:09+00:00

I'd say go during the peak of your manhood for the fun game and to test your magnetism

Ywaina · 2025-09-30T17:55:21+00:00

Most women don't even go to club or bars nowadays unless they're already taken and they know someone's gonna pay their tabs for all those shitty drinks. Social media really remove the necessity of visiting such gatherings.

Title	Stop going to clubs
Author	LeatherDonkey3806
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	September 30, 2025 4:18 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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