This might be controversial and many may not agree with it but I’ll post it anyway. Growing up I always believed in doing things the right way work now have fun later. Self improvement was the mantra since I was self aware. Fitness, school and career was my only focus. My goals were go to bed at 9. Wake up early to go to the gym. Play as many sports as possible, try and get/maintain a 4.0 gpa, read a lot of books and just trust the process. While this might be the road to being successful one day maybe my life was one sided. I made a post here recently about how I have no personality and this what I meant.

While I was on my so called path to success, people who weren’t doing this the right way, Drinking, smoking, partying till 3am were living my dream. They had wayy better social skills, social circles and sex lives. Then I figured they were successful because they weren’t boring. They can have a conversation and get laid without scratching their head on how to open a set, neg trying to kimo or applying any bullshit theory that is not helpful to the inexperienced newbie.

In my opinion going to a lot of parties and just socializing will help a lot of hardcase newbies and extremely introverted people than game will. Game will just make you seem nerdy, creepy and have a bland personality. Yes maybe after a decade you’ll be a god with women to the average guy but for the first two years of game you doing all this to get on the level of an average guy who is just good socially.

My game plan is to go natural first year or two of game then add all the theory shit later.