We're all trying to make sense of the world. But one thing I've noticed with guys who haven't interacted much with women is that they type-cast / box women into different stereotyped categories to make women easier to comprehend. Examples:
"She's the slutty party girl so she will be loose"
"She has a lot of piercings and tattoos, so she will be wild in bed"
"She's Latina so she's passionate and wild"
"She's Asian so she's nerdy and submissive"
"She's tall so she prefers tall guys"
"She's career oriented, so she likes to be the dominant one in the relationship"
"She's religious, so she won't have casual sex"
"She's posting bikini pics on Instagram so she isn't loyal".
Etc. Etc.
Thinking in these simplistic terms will hurt your game because a lot of women don't fit that stereotyped box you put them in. And they will notice that you assume things about them when you talk to them. And they won't like it one bit. Now you ruined your chance with a potentially great girl. Plus you ruined your reputation as she will think you're an assuming idiot and will tell her friends about how you're such a doofus.
Socially intelligent people try not to assume too much others based on these superficial first impressions; they try to get to know each person individually. They try see the woman for who she actually is. They try to dig beneath the surface. They're always open to finding out that she's very different than first appearances. Women are sometimes the complete opposite from what you would expect.
So stop type-casting and begin asking questions that show that you actually want to get to know her. Rather than put her in some box of preconceived notions.
This is especially true for guys with fetishes for enthicites like Black, Asian, Latino etc. Then you have to be extra careful not to typecast and stereotype or she will definitely pick up on it and be turned off.
Let's up our game guys! Peace out
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