Struggling to cold Approach

tellythesloot · 2021-10-07T15:49:20+00:00

You are giving up before you reached the goals you set up for yourself. Go back out today and holler at 6 women. Tomorrow do the same. In fact keep doing it into perpetuity.....OR until you become a bad ass smooth motherfuclkng suave, Don Juan, lady killer motherfucker man whore filthy slut

Can you guess which one comes first?

PatientAssociation62 · 2021-10-07T15:59:13+00:00

bear in mind women in open public areas like parks, grocery stores, etc are much more "on guard" than at social events like weddings, parties, etc. Your game has to be on point for cold approaches. Instead of rando cold approaches I am trying to go to social events and see who shows up. May be much easier for you to do the same starting out.

Chicagoj1563 · 2021-10-07T18:30:09+00:00

Start by initiating conversations with women you see. Don't think about this being pickup or cold approach. Just try to start a conversation with a stranger on anything that interests you. Is there anything about they way they look, or the store your in, or the park, or whatever, that you can start a conversation with? Start the conversation as if you already know them. You don't need openers to do this. Assume familiarity.

Adapt the mindset that you are learning social dynamics. So, don't worry about what the responses are. You are learning something new. Give yourself a break and don't over think it. Its just talking to people.

Right now your inner game is a mess mainly due to how young you are and all the social conditioning that has effected how you think. Game can be like therapy to fix that. But, focus on the process of learning how to talk to strangers, not on how you feel weird, or whatever. When you walk away just say to yourself, that was great, I followed through and took action. And next time I'll adjust x, y, and z. Each approach makes you more experienced and better. So, have a smile on your face no matter what happens after each approach. You can learn all the attraction material later after you can open. But, your sticking point is opening. So, work on that and focus on the process.

Title	Struggling to cold Approach
Author	Low-Mall9781
Upvotes	5
Comments	19
Date	October 7, 2021 3:28 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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