Progression of cold approach

norwegiandoggo · 2024-08-17T17:37:10+00:00

You need an opener that has a possibility for progress built-in.

Here's a simple example: Ask directions for the nearest coffee place. Then ask her to join you for coffee.

You have to plan this next step in your mind so you know where to take the conversation. If you ask directions to the subway and she tells you how to get there, what then? You probably shouldn't have asked her where the subway was because now you don't have a follow-up. You need to use the thinky thinky part and have a follow up prepared already before you approach. The opener and the follow-up should both be there, in your mind, ready to go.

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-08-17T17:17:34+00:00

The next level would be: now you have to leave.

Because asking them for a direction means you need to get there.

AnAIAteMyBaby · 2024-08-18T04:25:50+00:00

The progression is to practice turning the directions smoothly into a conversation, when you can do that the next step is to ask for her number before you leave. This is quite a good example of smoothly turning directions into a longer conversation and then asking for the number

https://youtu.be/5Lkqone-hig?si=eUhg6szWryfopEM3

nunsaymoo · 2024-08-18T07:24:44+00:00

Isn't "asking for directions" what Ted Bundy used to do before kidnapping his victims? Just grow some balls and ask a girl out.

Dandys3107 · 2024-08-18T12:01:34+00:00

I guess you can now get to the thing, if you got accustomed with the process. Figure out some situational banter, start with compliment, use some clever "shock" opener to make her laugh. After little warmup and giving her few moments to look at you, you ask her for a quick date or take her number to set up a date later. Remember that cold approach is all about that good initial impression, so taking care of your appearance, being confident and presenting masculine body language is a must-go.

TheWingmanForYou · 2024-08-19T00:55:14+00:00

First off, it’s most often the women who need directions, men rarely need directions, so right from the start, you took a dump and already left the toilet without wiping your ass with that way.

epimpstyle · 2024-08-20T20:16:26+00:00

To make your life easier, just be a little bit clever... don't act like you are in a hurry because that way you will put pressure on her, better be relaxed and ask just because you are curious to know the information (because your google maps is not working), so you ask for directions, but after she says, you repeat including something wrong, she will correct you and repeat, now you say again this time in the right way "now I got it so is not [as you said wrong] by the way do you live in this area? [yes/no] ... and depending on what she says, a version is to continue: "I was once in XYZ and I asked a guy about XYZ and [insert a funny story] ... "

If she laughs, just make a transition: "I like talking to you, you look like you're open-minded/funny/interesting and you're super/fucking cute when you laugh ... " (notice that I added "when you laugh", she will also notice it and she will be like "wtf? only when I laugh?" and if all goes well, she will laugh/smile more often because that is what you said "you are cute when you laugh" and this is a very good "qualifier"). Also, "you look like you're open-minded/funny/interesting" is a preparation for asking her out for coffee later, it's like: "Let's go out for coffee and find out if you are as open-minded/funny/interesting as you seem at first glance."

What's next is hard to say because it depends on how the girl will react, but this is a basic template when you jump from asking directions to letting her know that you think she is cute. It is a little hard to explain, but it is super easy to repeat if you see someone doing it, that is how you learn.

Elegant-Charity7142 · 2024-08-17T17:20:05+00:00

Expect nothing from them but give a compliment. Goal should be just go up to them, complement, and close for # eventually.

It’s like jumping off a diving board. You are getting your toes wet but it’s gunna be a whole other game. I recommend watching a bunch of “talktogirls” on TikTok. He takes a lot of Todd V’s style but summarizes his years of vids

COMFORT-ARLINGTON · 2024-08-17T18:43:09+00:00

ive done this before. after l asked for directions, l think she asked me if l was a freshman, and l said yes. then l asked her if she was tamil cause she looked tamil, then l just started talking about tamil stuff, and what she thought about the college. she ended up asking me for my socials. l also did this with another white female. she also ended up asking me if l was new here, and went on to talk about herself, how she was a phd student, etc. l got lucky with both of them in that they were both very open and friendly. l wasnt trying to cold approach either of them though. but l would imagine after asking for directions, youd start by introducing yourself

Title	Progression of cold approach
Author	Low-Mall9781
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Date	August 17, 2024 4:54 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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