I can talk to people completely fine but I don’t know how to get to know them. There’s a girl that I want who I’ve hung out with a few times and we end up either talking about bullshit or me. I don’t know what to ask to break her out of her shell and get to know her without it being awkward or boring usually girls just tell me stuff. Also getting them into a sexual mindset in the early talking stages of knowing them so they don’t see you as a nice guy or someone who’s not a good sexual partner is a pain to me. Any advice?