Some of you AFCs have probably encountered this scenario before.

you open a conversation and it goes like this:

You: Hi

Her: Hey

You: How are you?

Her: Fine

You: Enjoying this weather? I'm ready to head out for an adventure! :)

Her: Haha cool

Do you see what she's doing? She's disrespecting you by not actively participating in the conversation. You then struggle to keep the conversation going when she's not even interested in talking to you. SHE holds the power, not you.

Juggler noted this in one of his books.

Keep in mind Juggler's 90-10 rule. That is, you must be prepared to provide 90 percent of the conversation at the beginning of an interaction with a woman until she is warmed up. If you go in and give 50%, expecting she will give 50% - like most conversations in the non- PU world, you will be disappointed. She will give only 10%. That adds up to 60%. Not enough and the conversation will stall and collapse.

I'm taking this a step further and saying, through text, if you're only getting 10%, STOP TALKING TO HER. Do NOT try to supply 90% of the conversation through text. You'll look needy and probably annoy her. Stop forcing the conversation. If she only says "Haha" to you, she's probably thinking "why is this loser talking to me?" She knows you're super invested in the conversation and that's needy behavior. Show her that you don't care about text; after all, "it's just text."

Also, practice using conversation killers yourself. If I don't like the convo I'm getting through text, I'll also throw out a "haha yeah" or a "haha cool" to make myself seem detached from the convo. After I've committed to a conversation killer response, I STOP THINKING ABOUT HER. I go back to my normal life. If she wants to text me after that, fine. If not, I don't care. Remember, the heavy lifting should be done in person.

Stop thinking that you gotta spit your best game on text. Don't worry if the conversation falls flat during text. If she doesn't respect you enough to converse with you through text, then game her in person. I've found that the most unresponsive girls through text end up changing their tune after I've shown them a good time in person.