Thanks /r/seduction

expletive-deleted · 2011-12-01T07:34:26+00:00

You won't make sales unless you make calls. My absolutely favorite "Shit My Dad Says":

“That woman was sexy…Out of your league? Son. Let women figure out why they won’t screw you, don’t do it for them.”

Carry on, you're doing just fine.

edit: the moral to the story is - assume attraction, and shrug at being shot down, but never stop assuming attraction. Even towards girls who've shot you down. Don't try, just don't give a shit and be honest.

Let a girl know you like her. If she shoots you down, laugh it off. Be earnest about being a friend. But never be afraid to make yet another slightly perverted joke. And if she calls you out, "C'mon, you know [I think you're the bee's oh so sensual knees, I think you're cute, I'm into you, (and hilariously, because it has worked, "I'm evolutionarily driven towards procreating with you because you carry the traits I want my offspring to have"... I wouldn't use that on just any girl)]"

Then, say, "surely you can take a compliment.?" "I got you, but now we're losing time and/or, let's get back to [the card game, the party, drinking, etc]" and if her objections persist, "Seriously, it wasn't my intention to make you feel uncomfortable. [I kind of feel like a jerk now,] but [c'mon / can you blame me?] I feel that true beauty should be commended, and I [really] dig the way you are." Sorry, never mind, let's just have fun!

Now if you would, dumplin, deal me up some winners. Draw me the cards that will own the rest of these jive ass turkeys. (She's competing against you?) [in a secretive, whispering voice (maybe we should join forces. do you see these useless punks? with your ingenuity and my dashing shoe-shining skills, we can take these kittens for all they're worth and escape to Toledo, living the good life)].

TofuTofu · 2011-12-01T06:41:56+00:00

Glad you're finding value in it :)

Kudos!

ejpusa · 2011-12-01T12:18:56+00:00

I saw this video once, this guy had like a dozen hot chicks, he was kind of weird looking. He followed no rules, read no popular /seduction books, did not take a class, did not subscribe to a newsletter, none of that. Just one thing: I try to think how can I enhance her life, empower her. That's it. Was so simple in the end.

It was a cosmic thing to see. Go in with that attitude, and you'll end up with the coolest XX friends in the world. Really you will. For in the end they will outlive you, and one day she may come to your grave someday and say, hey I miss you. I really do.

And spend some dating time in NYC. For here they rule the world. And hold the planet together. It's like you are in a Victoria's Secret Fashion show 24/7.

SamGill · 2011-12-01T10:37:08+00:00

this is a huge step. and now you realise that all of last year's fuss was about nothing. truly nothing. congrats

2011-12-01T11:56:23+00:00

And the real key is not just forgetting, but moving right on to the next chick right away. If you're at a bar or club, this can be done in under a minute. And should be.

Congrats! After a few hundred, it will completely mean nothing. And that's the biggest step you'll ever take in pickup.

Nobody_special · 2011-12-01T12:06:36+00:00

Attitude makes a big difference. Your frame of reference is important.

guywithbeard · 2011-12-01T07:26:10+00:00

So proud of you! Keep up the game!

2011-12-01T08:33:00+00:00

right on holmes, thanks for coming back here and talking to bros before worrying about some chickenhead :)

absurdconcept · 2011-12-01T05:50:04+00:00

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kurturu · 2011-12-01T06:52:40+00:00

She was probably ugly as fuk, no wonder you forgot everything about her already, and dont care... But even she didnt want to have anything to do with a loser like you.

Title	Thanks /r/seduction
Author	Soccer21x
Upvotes	136
Comments	22
Date	December 1, 2011 5:19 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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