The Great Experiment

So I'm not doing this as a proper FR because it would just be way too long. I decided a few months ago that I wanted to spend 1 week and go out every single night, 7 days in a row, until last call. At the beginning of April I finally cleared my work travel schedule and did this....and saw that it was good. Nearly killed me...but good.

My response to this being good was to do it again the week after, and I did, and it was better.

I'm currently on week 4 of this marathon, which will be the last because I finally have to get back on the road for my job for a couple weeks and act like an adult. The last day of the experiment will be this upcoming Friday night.

Over the course of this month I've only had FIVE nights where I haven't been out, and only maybe 3 more beyond that were I was out but not until last call.

During this experiment I've gotten 3 legit pulls, 2 instances of going to a girl's place but getting LMR'd, 20+ makeouts, 44 phone numbers, and I lost track of the approaches. That's a pretty solid 30 days.

My Takeaways:

• Stay out LATE. All the best shit happens in the last 30 minutes.
• Avoid girls who are near blackout, no matter how hot they are. You don't want that.
• Have zero expectations of your night. Best nights were when I just coasted and went where I was taken.
• Press for a kiss early, always. Get close, get eye contact, whisper them a secret, and go for it. 10mins tops.
• Find one "home base" bar in each district in your city you go to. Become a regular.
• AA never goes away, not even after all this. Just do it, what's the point of life if you don't try?
• Relish shit while it's happening, you only live once. Whether it's a sexy girl or just a crazy moment, remember it.
• Play with girls' hair. Twirl it around your finger, pull it, etc. Sooo underrated as a kino device.
• Watch the hands. Just because you made out doesn't mean she wants to be groped like a hooker.
• ENJOY YOURSELF. State = enjoying yourself. State is entirely up to you.
• Social Circle game is easier than cold approach, but cold approach is SO MUCH MORE FUN and unpredictable.

Outside of meeting girls, I've just had a spectacular time. I threw a chair off the roof of an apartment building while tweaked out on Vyvanse at 3am on a Monday night, I've left a trail of sunglasses and credit cards at bars across the city, I've met shady new friends, I woke up with someone's dog at my house and had to find out who it belonged to, gotten a bunch of parking tickets, crashed some office happy hours, etc. It feels like a 30 day version of The Hangover. I couldn't live like this all the time, but it's pretty aces for a little while.

I feel like I want to fall over and die, I've never been so tired, but I'm really looking forward to the last 3 nights of the experiment here. I emphatically encourage anyone to do this, and really do it for a whole month. Stock up on Red Bull and clear your calendar.

Most importantly, I am so much better at all this shit today than I was at the end of March. No 3-day boot camp is going to give you a level-up like 4 weeks of insane motherfuckery will.

Just wanted to try to encourage people to push it a bit. It's fun.

Mini Update - Thursday 4/19 Out in Dupont last night, unashamed to say it wasn't anything special, but we soldiered until last call anyway. Some nights are like that, and it's important to STAY OUT ANYWAY because you never know what will happen. Most entertaining set involved a 43 year old woman (surprisingly cute) who I made out with, and then whom I convinced to make out with a friend who's usually pretty quiet. Also, apparently telling a girl she has nice legs is offensive enough to get her two greased-out dudebros (each of which was like 5'5" LOL) to come over and admonish me for being rude to girls. Totally mediocre all things considered, but better than staying home.