This has been a huge sticking point for me.

We know that attraction is generated by: -Breaking Rapport -Keeping them guessing -Confidence -Strong Body Language -Teasing and Banter -The "Push" aspect of Push Pull.

However, this directly conflicts with being charming and getting thr girl comfortable. Which is achieved by: -Building/Seeking Rapport -Compliments -Not teasing and Banter as much -Showing vulnerability -The "Pull" aspect of Push-pull

My problem has been that if I act too charming and genuine, the girl is never attracted to me and friend zones me.

On thr flip side, when I'm trying to bust their balls and keep attraction, they don't feel as comfortable or trust me and think I'm an asshole.

Exactly how do you intertwine these two paradoxical concepts?