I hear a lot of guys on here complain that the way they look effects their game. Although confidence is very important, the way you look also matters in most cases. There is no beating around the bush with that. But there is nothing stopping you from being the most clean and presentable version of yourself. A girl is much more likely to be attracted to a guy that looks clean and put together, regardless of size or overall look.

Some of the things I mention might seem feminine, but you would be doing them in private and no one but you would really know.

  1. Use Facial moisturizers - Depending on the season and where you live, dryness might be worse than other places. Regardless, daily cleaning and moisturizing of your face gives you more of a clean vibrant look, making you stick out from those around you.
  2. Get your eyebrows done - A lot of guys might be against this for obvious reasons but my ex was the one that originally got me started on this. She straight up told me that I would look so much better if I just got them done every month or so. Your eyebrows shape your face and all they would really be doing is cleaning up your eyebrows natural shape and getting rid of stray hairs. This will give you a more symmetrical looking face. Symmetry of the face is a proven factor in attractiveness of a person.
  3. Use hair product - This might not be for everyone but if you have a nice head of hair, use it to your advantage. It makes you look much cleaner and presentable. Women also appreciate a man who puts effort into the way they look. After all, they do too.
  4. Get monthly haircuts - This goes along with the last one. A fresh cut is a necessary part of a clean look. Mens haircuts aren't usually that expensive anyways. A fresh cut just radiates confidence all on its own.
  5. Try Teeth Whitening - Your face is your most important feature and your teeth are one of the most noticeable parts of your face. I didn't always take care of my teeth as well as I should have and I heard from a couple different women that I would look a lot better if I whitened my teeth. I used strips back then but today I use charcoal teeth whitening and brush my teeth 2-3 times a day (once at night, once in the morning, once before I go out).
  6. Get some new clothes - If the clothing you are wearing is starting to get discolored then its time for a wardrobe update. A lot of guys know what they like with clothes but don't really have much of a fashion sense (I unfortunately fall into that category). One thing that most guys don't know is that many of the big box stores offer free appointments with fashion experts who will make a style FOR you. They will tell you what kind of clothes look good on you and bring out your best features.
  7. Wear Cologne - This one can be a little expensive, but if you have the money you should definitely do it. A little bit goes a long way and smelling good in close encounters with women can be a strong force in making you seem more desirable. But there are times to use it and not to use it.
  • When to use it: going out with friends casually, going on a date, going out to a bar/ club (use more than usual at clubs)
  • When not to use it: Going to class, going to work, when you are around any large group of people involuntarily.

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A lot of guys don't really focus on appearance so much because of the feminine nature of cosmetic products and services. But if they just sucked it up and were comfortable with their sexuality, they would surely benefit. If anyone has anything else they use which makes them look better, please share.