So there was this woman who I had an exceedingly growing chemistry with. You get to know when someone likes you and when someone doesn't. Her energy, body language, eyes, and everything communicated a genuine interest. I, instead of rushing, decided to wait and asked her out after 4 months. She turned me down stating "she isn't ready for relationships." I understood what soft rejections were and decided to walk away. This was a week before my birthday. Ever since she rejected me, I've been giving her the cold treatment because she wanted to friendzone me. I don't talk to her, do not greet her, do not walk into the same room as her, do not text her. And she notices everything. There are days I've found her staring at me nonstop from a distance. She's overly aware of my presence and my actions. She'll always take a glancing look at me. I also saw her kinda sad when she saw me with another woman the other day. I'm not sure what to label these things as, but to me, these things are an indicator of a liking. The problem here is that it's her birthday today. And I'm conflicted if I should wish her or continue giving her the cold treatment. I know this sounds like a petty issue, but do help me out.