Too many

chips_and_hummus · 2024-11-09T06:04:12+00:00

you say anything along the lines of “hey i’ve really enjoyed getting to know you over the past few weeks, but i need to be honest that i’m feeling like our connection/chemistry isn’t quite where i want it to be to progress things to the next level. i genuinely think you’re a cool person and i wish you the best” or you can say that there’s someone else you have a strong connection with and you want to focus on that for a while.

imagine you’re getting let down by a girl, how would you like her to say it in the most respectful but also clear way? go with something like that

honestly it’s not fun sending these messages or having this talk in person. sometimes they are super chill about it and others they will, understandably, by upset. it sucks to make someone feel that way so keep it in mind but the main thing is being respectful, empathetic, and clear.

Hunt_the_Bay · 2024-11-09T05:45:07+00:00

For me 3 is the limit of maintaining actual relationships without it overtaking my life, otherwise it becomes a full time job. Any more than that have to be really casual flings

Informal_Sherbert251 · 2024-11-10T16:09:23+00:00

The big reason is fear of being hurt again for most men. I’m not quite set up yet but once I get there I just plan to have 3 girls in rotation and keep things on a weeks basis. Make the money I make then hit each one on a weekend, then move on if nothin happens. Being outcome independent is crucial.

offinthewoods10 · 2024-11-09T05:08:00+00:00

Then just text them that your taking a break from dating or just text them less

KoleSekor · 2024-11-09T05:36:47+00:00

"you're amazing but the vibes not quite right for me so I'll be honest I'm more down for friendship"

alphaonthecomeup · 2024-11-10T07:49:51+00:00

How did you get 4 girls bro ?

GiotaroKugio · 2024-11-10T12:17:04+00:00

try to do a trio with two of them , either they agree or they wont want to see you again. Win win for you either way

bad_intentions_too · 2024-11-09T05:13:53+00:00

LMAO 4 girls.

Title	Too many
Author	Total_Marsupial1754
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	November 9, 2024 4:43 AM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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