Tough situation

Dwerg1 · 2025-05-04T20:55:30+00:00

This is where you decide what kind of man you want to be. The one who does the right thing even if you don't want to or the one who selfishly takes advantage of others.

I can't tell you who you want to be, but you probably have some idea about it.

Chiiiicckkeeennn · 2025-05-04T21:41:09+00:00

Tell her what It is and let her choose there’s other women in the world.

that-dreamer · 2025-05-04T23:54:32+00:00

There's no seduction mind-game conversational loop de loops here. She told you exactly where she is with her boundaries. If you want to keep enjoying her presence, you need to commit to her. So either commit to her, or lose her.

Why don't you want to commit to her?

SithLordJediMaster · 2025-05-04T20:51:41+00:00

“I really care about you and love what we have. I’m not in a place right now where I feel ready for a committed relationship, but I don’t want to lose what we share. I’d like to understand what you need and see if we can find a way forward that works for both of us.”

tonyferguson2021 · 2025-05-05T01:51:25+00:00

You are in a relationship, you’re in a fucking relationship with yourself and everyone you know.

Now for various reasons many people have a massive phobia of the R word with a capital R. But acknowledging that you do have a relationship (small r) is a way of accepting your reality at least 🤷‍♂️

Why obsess over semantics, you can design the details or requirements of the ’relationship’ to mean exactly what you want but you do have to accept you are in one IMO

TripleDigitNomad · 2025-05-07T11:31:11+00:00

Yeah that was not a good response. If a girl asks you that question, it's because she wants a relationship from you, otherwise that question wouldn't have been needed to be asked since you guys are already acting as FWBs.

Your only real option here is to start a committed relationship with her if you don't want to lose her.

Title	Tough situation
Author	Trick-Race2739
Upvotes	3
Comments	14
Date	May 4, 2025 8:28 PM UTC (1 year ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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