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[–]BensonInFL6 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
But we forget that even tens have down weeks or even months. Maybe their ex just cheated on them and left them. Maybe they are just feeling a bit depressed.
This is soooo true.... many times I've texted and called 'half' interested girls for days or weeks, and boom, all of a sudden, they are interested in meeting up.. i didn't say anything clever or funny right before.. but it was a change in THEIR situation... usually I don't know until after the fact.. we meet up.. have sex.. and then they mention that they had a fight with their bf.. or some other random event....
Good luck my Kings.
Best post that I have seen here in a while dude!!
-B
[–]skullirang 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Holy shit actual good advice on this sub.
I had a similar mindset except my goal was to approach at least on girl in every area i.e. approach one girl in the cafeteria, one girl in the hallways, one girl in the park etc. I also always go for a no (sales tactic) whenever I'm in a conversation.
This seriously gets addicting and rejection becomes superficial.
[–]DontWorryBeHappyMan 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Great post and great advice!
[–]precessionbanana 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Great post! It reminds me of a sales quote: "If you want to increase your success rate, double your failure rate."
Also, another relevant quote I like: "If you don't ask, the answer will always be no."
[–]PM_ME_UR_SOCKS_GIRL 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Love it! I would be a little afraid of not trying as hard because I'd expect a rejection. I really need to start doing more approaches though.
[–]Its0ver4U -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link
/r/amiugly is a bunch of people just looking for validation.
No one actually ugly posts their pictures online because they already know that they're ugly.
I've approached close to 200 girls and have been rejected by all of them due to my looks.
Already perfected my body, my hygiene, my sense of fashion.
None of it makes a difference. Got hobbies, joined clubs, went out and talked to people. None of it helped because I'm actually ugly.
By your theory, I should have dated dozens of women by now, but instead, it's zero.
I regularly get turned down and insulted for my looks without provocation.
Will approach a girl at a party and say hi to her and she will say something like "get away from me you're ugly".
What the fuck am I supposed to do then?
[–]realfrkshww 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s probably an odd question, but do you mind sharing some pictures of yourself privately? Genially curious.
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[–]Its0ver4U -4 points-3 points-2 points 5 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link
Nice denial.
"Since this doesn't co-align with my world-views, it must be contrived and false."
Nah bro. I've been randomly insulted and harshly put down dozens of times in my life.
There are tons of other guys out there just like me that claim the same exact things. It's very real and super common if you're ugly.
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[–]IFoundTheAllBlue -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Not to be that guy, but if a 2-3 is bottom 10%, then what's average. Also rip to the 1s :(
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[–]IFoundTheAllBlue -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yeah I was looking at that image and was in disbelief at some if the midranks
[–]BensonInFL 5 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Nah bro. I've been randomly insulted and harshly put down dozens of times in my life. It's very real and super common if you're ugly.
It's very real and super common if you're ugly.
You might or might not be ugly, no one here knows for sure.. but it IS TRUE that girls generally don't put men down this directly or harshly... they are usually uncomfortable and apologetic and try to nicely say 'no thank you'.. or even lie and say 'i have a boyfriend' when they don't don't.. they try to avoid confrontation because you are doing something very vulnerable and you could get mad and violent with them if they turn you down...
If it is indeed true that you are insulted and harshly put down, then it is more likely a function of your approach and less about your looks... this simply isn't common behavior for girls
[–]Its0ver4U -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
IS TRUE that girls generally don't put regular looking men down this directly or harshly
fixed that for you
So many mental gymnastics to avoid just admitting the truth.
So... literally having a girl walk by me and call me ugly or say EW right to my face is because of my "approach".
Sure bro, makes complete sense to me.
[–]alwaysmooth 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
bullshit. post face
even if you look like freaking quasimodo girls are still going to be nice about it when they're saying no
[–]Its0ver4U 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Post face so we can spread it around and make a meme out of you that will be shared for years!
Hmm... all of the people telling me I'm ugly my entire life must've just been lying to me.
My own family telling me that I am probably never going to get married had nothing to do with my looks...
Funny how you're trying to lecture someone who actually knows what they're talking about and has anecdotes to back it up.
I've been made fun of numerous times for my appearance without any provocation.
You really think posting a picture of my face is going to change all of the times I've been randomly chastised and harassed for my appearance?
[–]hakeem15 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Sorry to hear that, especially if you really maximized every other part of you. Do you know what it is about you that makes you ugly? Is plastic surgery a possibility? Or moving to a place where people don't find those traits unattractive?
[–]sadlonelygirl_ 5 years ago [recovered] (3 children) | Copy Link
Does this apply for girls trying to get a boyfriend too or only for guys?
[–]keshadems16 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
most girls are afraid to shoot first, trust me, guys find it hot, and most times it’ll work well for you.
[–]sadlonelygirl_0 points 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Meh, waiting for men to approach me is never gonna happen. It hasn't happened before covid and it definitely isn't going to happen during where everyone is wearing masks and distancing.
[–]tibles20 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link
This is not the best method but if it works for you then it works
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[–]tibles20 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
I had it then I wouldn't be single and a virgin
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[–]tibles20 -1 points0 points1 point 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link
If it is the best way for you do it
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[–]tibles20 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link
I am in a wheelchair and have diabetes and a blood clot
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[–]tibles20 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link
You are being in sensitive
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[–]tibles201 point 5 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
I told you I was disabled my reason is i don't get out as much
[–]alwaysmooth 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Epic post king. I watched a James Marshall video the other day where he said "I've been rejected more times than you'll ever approach." That really resonated with me to get my ass in gear and just start going for it. The pain of rejection is nothing compared to the pain of regret.
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