What did you do on your first date?

Michael7164 · 2021-08-12T19:40:31+00:00

I’m about your age and my go to is ice cream for the first date. Cooking dinner is good and honestly impressive for only being 15! Whatever you do, do not go the to movies. You wont be getting to know each other and little to no eye contact and it’s honestly awkward.

However if you cook her dinner and THEN watch a movie at your place, totally cool.

As for what’s next, just go with flow, remember to breathe, and see what happens.

Edit: good luck brother!

Businessinsight · 2021-08-12T20:48:55+00:00

Go grab coffee, ice cream or smoothies. The movies on a first date are a bad choice, you want to get to know your date, not just stare at the screem for the next 2 to 3 hours.

Same thing goes for restaurants or basicly any expensieve (+$20) stuff. If it does not click, you dont wanna stick with him or her for the evening.

Therocksays2020 · 2021-08-12T18:05:45+00:00

At your age just avoid the movies.

I like smoothies and ice cream /walk in the park at your age. At your age you don’t want to be in any one place too long.

Keep things moving

Rathernotusername · 2021-08-12T20:24:08+00:00

Men remeber you are already a winner

ORIONFULL23 · 2021-08-12T18:30:37+00:00

Just go out for an ice cream or something that isnt expensive, dont be nervous, chances are she is more nervous that you, and focus on having a good time with her

Jwthrowaway6626 · 2021-08-13T02:44:38+00:00

Getting a lego set and building it together would be a fun after-dinner activity that could wouldnt take too long depending on the size of it! It might also be a decent way to break the ice and find some good points for conversation. I planned on doing that with a girl on a coffee date once. The lego set was going to be a surprise so she didn’t know about it and flaked on the date but a few of my friends I told about it thought it was a really sweet idea.

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-08-13T06:45:20+00:00

Pinball, arcade, pool a place where the two of you can play a game together… not console. It’s easy to talk and it also gives you the opportunity to brush up on each other. Don’t let her win either, if she does win that’s perfectly fine but don’t let her win.

Demon_Slayer_9 · 2021-08-12T17:50:12+00:00

I did not do anything. Because I've never been on a date.

FantasticElephant420 · 2021-08-12T17:56:03+00:00

AHHAHA BRO WE’RE IN THE SAME BOAT! I cold approached a girl today and got her snap, but me and my ex never went on dates we were always at her place all the time. So man I really don’t know, but at least you’re not alone lol

mountaindude78 · 2021-08-12T18:57:59+00:00

Go see Black Widow, everyone is talking about it, so it'll probably be an interesting date idea

Go out to eat afterwards. Nowhere fancy, just somewhere you like. Since you're too young, it's okay if she drives. Pay for her food

Since you just saw a movie, there's plenty to talk about to keep the awkward silences from happening.

Demon_Slayer_9 · 2021-08-12T21:10:34+00:00

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Narcan9 · 2021-08-12T19:18:34+00:00

I met her at a bar and had some alcoholic beverages.

Narcan9 · 2021-08-12T22:03:31+00:00

Does your City have those electric scooters that can be rented? Grab a pair of those and cruise around some parks, lakes, rivers.

Useful_Lawfulness517 · 2021-08-13T00:59:31+00:00

Arcades are a good way to go. Then maybe go grab some ice cream afterwards. Try and go somewhere where there are multiple venues nearby such as a shopping center etc so you are not stuck doing one thing.

The key is to LEAD. This will take time and multiple dates to get the hang of it but you should never leave it up to her to lead the date. You choose where to go and how and when the date ends.

Hope this helps and good luck!

thecandleharlot · 2021-08-13T06:18:28+00:00

my first date ever was getting ice cream and walking through our downtown city and it was honestly so nice and such a relaxed way to get to know someone better! Depending on how well you know her, she might be more comfortable with the prospect of doing something in public first rather than the entirety of it being at your house. Cooking her dinner sounds amazing though, would be a great 2nd or 3rd date idea!

nanozeus2014 · 2021-08-13T06:32:52+00:00

taco bell and then went to see madonnas truth or dare lol

Darsh_009 · 2021-08-13T10:00:36+00:00

Just stay cool and confident. If u really like her then make sure she knows that. Observe her, listen to her, make her smile, flirt only if it's mutual, get to know her interests and make her to talk about them. You are cooking so make something that smells good ( ofc u gonna cook delicious for a girl). Don't discuss any kind of issues or problems u have. That's too soon and you'll freak her a bit. There are some cues a girl will give involuntarily which tells that she's into you. All the best

Title	What did you do on your first date?
Author	Demon_Slayer_9
Upvotes	18
Comments	47
Date	August 12, 2021 5:47 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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