What do you do in this situation?

luaudesign · 2017-05-14T12:32:28+00:00

Make her introduce you to five hot friends.

andrewgore96 · 2017-05-14T09:03:18+00:00

I'm not sure what you're asking here... yes, move on. Social media has nothing to do with this particular girl

Woujo · 2017-05-14T13:39:07+00:00

This isn't a "situation" you have to "handle." You don't need to do anything.

kalolilo · 2017-05-14T09:44:17+00:00

Just be unaffected and make her your wing girl.

memedealer22 · 2017-05-14T16:06:44+00:00

In my experience sometimes you meet the right people at the wrong people, thats ok sometimes life is a dick.

What I would recommend is not totally avoiding her from now on. I would advise still talking to her, be friends with her. Chances are her new relationship will; fail, and bomb, and gag, and bomb and gag.

When her relationship indoubtly, you'll still be there as her great friend. Then while all you'll got to do will be swoop in for the kill.

Happy hunting.

recyclablebanthas · 2017-05-15T14:26:59+00:00

When things are going good with a girl and she's interested and a short time later she has a boyfriend.

Okay. So the first thing to note is that things WEREN'T going as well as you thought if she ends up with a boyfriend who isn't you, at this point. If she's interested in you, she won't become someone else's GF.

End of story.

What I would do is just stop talking to her and meet new women.

Well, perhaps you shouldn't have had all your eggs in one basket at this point, anyway.

What would be adviseable with social media (mass snaps, instagram tagging etc) and how do you handle these situations?

Look, Seddit noobs keep going on about how Snapchat and IG are necessary when they're really NOT. You want to post your pictures on IG and see if people like them? Fine. But if you NEED to do that, it's a problem: you shouldn't be dependent on the validation from these platforms.

Also, I don't handle these situations by running around looking for validation to make up for it. I don't handle these situations by sending out mass messages, posts, or tagging people to let everyone know that I'm with some other girl or whatever it is you're implying you want to do.

When it doesn't work out, I realize that the girl has done me a favor by showing me she's not interested. Also, I'm usually aware of it long before she shows up with a BF who isn't me. You have some self-awareness to work on, not your social media platform strategy.

To this end, you ought to work on paying better attention to the girl.

xmaine · 2017-05-14T10:01:54+00:00

Just cuz there's a goalie doesn't mean you can't score.

Jk. Jk. I agree with the wingman sentiment. Just cuz things don't work out romantically, y'all can still squad up and wing.

I'm sorry I'm a bit turnt tbh

TunechiOnYoTunaFish · 2017-05-14T17:28:02+00:00

Move on. Plain and simple.

MonkeyFist4150 · 2017-05-14T22:30:06+00:00

She obviously believes her boyfriend is better than you, otherwise she would have cheated on him. Move on.

intellectualidiot · 2017-05-14T13:55:29+00:00

As in she's just started dating him? I dunno dude if you really like this girl maybe you should tell her how you feel. It can't be that serious already.

dumbcalculator · 2017-05-14T17:34:40+00:00

Cut the contact and just continue further on your journey! There are plenty of fishes in the ocean.

Title	What do you do in this situation?
Author	WarninglSign
Upvotes	19
Comments	14
Date	May 14, 2017 8:55 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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