What do you do when you get rejected? I feel bad atm

brianbria · 2017-10-29T00:12:07+00:00

And why do you feel bad?

I'm guessing you have critical thoughts which make you feel bad "I'm ugly, loser, not good enough, he's better, this always happens to me, there's no point", watch these thoughts clearly, don't let them sit in your unconcious. Be aware, when you catch the thoughts, realise they're just thoughts and let them go.

Then approach more.

thundercookiees · 2017-10-28T23:13:07+00:00

Never fear rejection. Seek it. Pain is growth. Failure is growth. It builds character. Whom are we to call ourselves strong if we've not been tested. Let it empower you, not deter you. Get back out there and keep swinging. Learn from everything you do. Success and failure combined. And be better for it. Best of luck!

IntrovertSigma · 2017-10-28T22:57:20+00:00

Talk to more. Then more. Then even more.

regus_diavolo · 2017-10-29T01:39:56+00:00

Her loss, now get back on the field and find someone who can appreciate who you really are.

ShongoMcForren · 2017-10-29T00:15:19+00:00

Surround yourself with friends, hobbies, and family. If it's your first or first few times getting rejected, it will hurt. And that's ok, because everyone feels the same. The ones who do not let rejection get to them are the ones that have openly accepted it time and time again using the same technique I mentioned. Your life isn't defined by rejection, but by your family, friends, hobbies, and career. So go do those things, and make sure you are just a little better than the day before.

Frederickfeeder · 2017-10-29T03:09:52+00:00

I also feel bad but I know I shouldn't. Can't help it

viniransou · 2017-10-29T03:17:43+00:00

You didn't even know her tht good so why do you feel like you lost something? You started with nothing and ended up with nothing. Stop falling in love with woman you still didnt even had a actual relationship. Just say NEXT ON THE LINE

jm-03 · 2017-10-29T03:21:56+00:00

The old adage "time heals all wounds" comes into play here, it will hurt at first but you'll get over it eventually

Title	What do you do when you get rejected? I feel bad atm
Author	KawnN
Upvotes	5
Comments	16
Date	October 28, 2017 10:40 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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