What do you think about newbies trying "day game"?

Tontobutt · 2016-06-23T05:47:05+00:00

Sounds like you're in a difficult situation. I'd suggest getting out there and doing something that would allow you to meet women in a social setting. I took a beginners improv class and it was fantastic because I was able to meet new people, learn how to think on my feet and be funnier, and it built up my confidence a little... But you could also join a mixed social sports team (meet girls and get fit), or take a writing or some other short course...

Another point I would like to stress is... The friend zone is a great place to be! Those girls who have befriended you have girl friends too, so hanging out with your girl friends will allow you to meet their girl friends and increase your social cycles. You meet a girl through her friend and it is so much easier than a cold open... just make sure your the original girl's fun friend... not the creepy friend who is always hitting on her.

upandup123 · 2016-06-23T10:03:59+00:00

Tyler talks a lot about getting into meditation and stuff for those that are autistic or have anxiety issues.

Maybe that would help.

TheXXL · 2016-06-23T09:32:31+00:00

is it creepy or bad?

It depends on what kind of daygame you are talking about. I personally find it creepy if you are running back and forth in a mall, or crowded street talking to every girl you see. But if you incorporate it in your daily activities, like going to the grocery store and on your way you pass an attractive girl, it's different.

But, and this is the most important factor in all this: It doesn't matter what i find creepy. If you approach a girl, she will most likely not know that you are out there sarging.

Especially considering I'm in my 30s and have no experience with women, I'm mildly autistic and have loads of anxiety problems.

It doesn't matter. Sure you need to practice at first, so you will get rejected many many times until you have it right, but this is the reality for anything your do. In every field you have to practice, and you will fail a lot.

I figure "now or never," though.

That's the spirit! Do it man! Don't let yourself being held back by what others think, and especially never give up!

A lot of folks suggest night game (bars/clubs, yada yada) but I cannot do that. Sensory problems and I feel like shit in heavily social, crowded atmospheres. People can tell that I feel shitty.

I can relate to that, apart from my problem to understand a fucking word anyone says to me when in a bar, i suffer also some days from the sensory overload, depends on my day to day form. I do like it more though, it's just so much energy!

A lot of folks suggest daygame, then. But a lot say "since you're socially inexperienced or a bit autistic, it'll look too creepy, so you probably shouldn't." At this point I just refer back to point one, that I can't do night-game.

Like i already said: Don't worry about what others find creepy. There will be women who are not receptive, there will be women who feel flattered by your approach, there will be women who get angry, rude, rejecting whatever, but it doesn't matter! If you are practicing it, given that you are able to identify your faults in approaching, holding a conversation etc. you will get better results. It will not happen in a day, hell, not even in a week, but it is not different with working out. Progress takes time.

I just want to throw my hands up, at this point. What's a loser-guy to do? Just nothing, like I've been doing, which has 0% of success?

A loser guy can do one of two things: Give up, and do nothing, or show himself and then all the haters that he will not die on his knees. Stand up and show us, and most importantly yourself, that you can do it. It will be hard as fuck, but the end result will be worth it.

Online dating is shit, loads of work for nothing (the best I can do is get friend-zoned by women I'm not interested in.)

Agreed on that, but also agree with some other comments saying that the friendzone is a great place to learn from women. you should embrace it, women are great friends!

So, like i always say: Do it, fight, practice! Don't let your motivation come from other people. Their opinion is of no importance to you. All it needs is that you WANT to do it! And now, go out and start your journey. Looking forward to hear how it went.

DaygameCoach · 2016-06-23T13:27:39+00:00

Read the sidebar help. If you think you are creepy or bad, you are. That is called a elf-limiting belief. Yes, go do a ton do daygame.

Title	What do you think about newbies trying "day game"?
Author	Aeon199
Upvotes	3
Comments	6
Date	June 23, 2016 5:10 AM UTC (10 years ago)
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