What does it mean when a girl takes such long time to reply?

Therocksays2020 · 2022-01-11T20:25:29+00:00

She may be a bad texter or she’s not interested.

The real question is why have you not asked her out yet

succcondese · 2022-01-12T00:20:20+00:00

don't worry about it she can just be a bad texter. girl I'm currently dating is the worst texter I have ever seen and very dry too, but our dates are great and very intimate. she takes hours to respond so we only text to set up the next meet-up

MA_CA_NV_CA · 2022-01-11T21:20:38+00:00

1-6 hours is totally in the normal range. I do this too just because I’m super busy with work and juggling girls. And guess what most attractive girls are juggling multiple guys and might have busy jobs / hobbies so they’re gonna take a while to respond. Gotta ask them out once you’ve established mutual interest.

Creative_Wallaby_439 · 2022-01-11T23:38:46+00:00

In my experience, its a test to see if you reply quicker/have a life/ some women are that busy.

Dont over think it, its a game.

Subject-Craft5870 · 2022-01-11T20:27:37+00:00

—1 to 6 hours might not mean anything. Let’s ask a different question - you really only should be using your phone to set up dates with this girl? Have you set up a date for a specific day and time? Did she say yes? That’s all that matters. Stop chatting incessantly on your phone (texting , social media etc etc etc) and ask this girl out for a specific day and specific time. And once you get a date- then focus on yourself and your life and date night. You’re going to chat her right out of not wanting to go out with you……..

What if she’s working , in school, etc. that might be why she’s taking so long to respond….

blueandgreypretty · 2022-01-11T20:31:13+00:00

Shes not that into you

dandi_lion · 2022-01-12T11:51:00+00:00

Bad texter here and maybe, like me, she struggles with these standards that normalised internet addiction have created. Sometimes ppl really are that busy, sometimes not, but just as there are different types of personalities, introvert/extrovert etc, and ppl who do things differently, it's the same with this. Even with guys said girl is interested in. Could be a sign of busyness, anxiety or disinterest. Either way, I think it's not worth thinking about until you've been on dates. Best environment to make any judgements.

Title	What does it mean when a girl takes such long time to reply?
Author	InternationalRice944
Upvotes	1
Comments	17
Date	January 11, 2022 8:18 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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