What should i do to date an attention seeker ?

saryiahan · 2026-02-26T18:47:42+00:00

Don’t.

hellisempty666 · 2026-02-26T21:19:31+00:00

Be the only man in the room not giving her attention.

drunkmers · 2026-02-26T18:56:38+00:00

Ask her out if she says yes date her a few times but I wouldn't recommend a relationship with this type of women, it's exhausting to be competing with their endless sources of validation and they will eventually jump to another guy

ModeoneUk · 2026-02-26T19:06:39+00:00

Best to avoid.

But if you really want her for some reason be straight with her on what you want and don't give her "free attention" in other words like for like, she's either interested or not no game playing.

ratsad · 2026-02-26T20:32:52+00:00

These kinds of people project what they want from a partner onto their profile. Their profile literally shows you the requirements for dating them; the funny thing is, these are the same people who later complain about having superficial relationships.

vertascend · 2026-02-26T20:36:46+00:00

There’s multiple reasons here not to even attempt Firstly… coworker?!… never a good idea… you will only end up hurting yourself Secondly….if she’s genuinely an attention seeker, then it won’t end … ever… but you probably know this… what’s your intention… do you just wanna smash?, even then… bad idea Thirdly…. She may not be an attention seeker, but is a tomboy…grew up around the bros … it’s all she knows, and if that’s the case….she’s not what you thought, but you won’t be able to stomach her getting playful with others, she honestly does sound like a lovely person Ultimately my advice would be to not go for it because for you… it’s just going to cause you hurt

Low-Investigator2953 · 2026-02-27T03:20:01+00:00

Love yourself and your mental peace, why even date this kind of girl ?

Few-General5990 · 2026-02-27T20:26:53+00:00

She’s an attention seeker who loves male attention.

She probably wants gang-fucking.

If you’ve got the stones then set that up.

Either that or be her cuck-boy.

Just go and find a decent, attractive woman who doesn’t whore herself over IG.

Or become powerful / wealthy so shallow women like this flock to you.

In reality: avoid.

prajeala · 2026-02-26T19:07:35+00:00

Have some self-respect and choose anyone but her. Why chase a whore for attention in the first place? If you happen to get into a 'relationship' with her, what do you think her next step would be? Crave even some more attention from different sources and when she's done with you being predictable, she is going to pass on to the next one. Never compete for a girl nor a woman; usually those enjoying triangulation are girls or very immature women.

dancingqueen2096 · 2026-02-27T08:32:48+00:00

Date a middle child

PositivePlastic8890 · 2026-03-02T16:52:43+00:00

Jacking off then fuck

Title	What should i do to date an attention seeker ?
Author	ticaaaa
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Date	February 26, 2026 6:37 PM UTC (5 months ago)
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