What to do when she cancels a date few hours before it?

BeefDeMane · 2015-05-14T18:45:30+00:00

Just delete her.

recyclablebantha · 2015-05-14T15:08:41+00:00

What to do when she cancels a date few hours before it?

Look, we're not magicians. We're not mind readers. If you want some help, actually POST something.

Off-hand, you should be scheduling your date to be some activity or at some place that you'll have fun whether or not she joins up.

Could you clarify a few things since you didn't really post much?

How did this date get scheduled? Who asked who out, etc?
How did you meet her?
How did you get her number?

K-Dawggg · 2015-05-14T13:56:58+00:00

Do you mean what to do as in what you should end up doing that night, or what do do with her?

If you were going to meet in a bar, you could always go out anyway and practice a bit of solo night game, but only if your frame is strong. If her flaking on you has affected your frame, best to just see if you can chill with your friends...

If she doesn't talk about an alternative time for a date when she cancels that's a bad sign, move on. It's not gonna work out well.

ErikTheRedPill · 2015-05-14T14:04:01+00:00

Tell her to pick a new time (give her 2 options). If she doesn't, delete her #

seductivealterego · 2015-05-15T01:54:33+00:00

Be a self-respecting person and find something else to keep you busy. In fact, it's probably healthy to always have other things to do at all times. Your time is precious and you have to have this mentality that you will use it to move forward in your life, be it spending time with quality people, relaxing to give yourself rest, working, reflecting etc.

If she is really into you, I think there will be an effort on both ends to reschedule. If she is kind of wishy-washy, just distract yourself with something else and move on. Finally, don't take it personally. Remember, she is a human being too and she is not obligated to date you. Be humble, accepts the facts, and move forward.

karimpii · 2015-05-15T01:02:58+00:00

Well, if ur asking, it means ur considering pursuing still. If that's the case, ur fucked. ur in a position where u care more than the other person. Nothing wrong with caring, until u let it get the best of u. Like say wanting to keep pursuing someone that clearly flaked on u because she didn't see ur time as worth it

Title	What to do when she cancels a date few hours before it?
Author	raikii
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	May 14, 2015 1:00 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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