I used to be an AFC. I was very studious, sheltered, and shy. I had two instances where two girls (in different situations) sexually escalated a conversation in my dorm room. What would you have done in this situation?

Also, I'm not sure (as I'm becoming more confident) if I'd try to do anything sexual with these girls. I guess I'd like to be in a relationship before I do anything. (I'm a complete virgin and haven't even made out with a chick.) I feel guilty for some reason. Thoughts about that, too?

Anyway, the situations... what would you do if you wanted to get her to play with your dick, etc?

Freshman year. Girl wants to study with me, so she comes in to my dorm room. We have some convo. She's fun and we gossip about people (e.g., talk about our mutual friends fucking). At some point, she just randomly blurts out, "Sucking your cock would be gross."

I don't remember what I did after that. I just kind of ignored it. What could've I said to that and get her over to my bed? We were seated at the two desks in my room.

Sophomore year. Girl wanted to hang out, so I invited her over to my room to watch a movie and TV shows with a floormate. I never really payed her much attention but I knew she was somewhat in to me. She says something like, "Do you have any lotion?" or something as she climbed into my bunk. My floormate kept glancing at me because he knew what was up and indicating that he'd leave if I wanted. She kept feeling my hair from the bunk.

Anyway, I didn't do anything and we ended up sleeping next to each other. I put a blanket barrier between us and I couldn't sleep because I was all like ZOMGWTFGIRL. She left early in the morning.

I guess I would've said bye bye to floormate and climb up with her. Talk to her, kino, snuggle. See what happens. Watch for LMR and freeze out.