What's the proper answer when someone asks you if you've slept with someone?

2013-06-03T01:01:41+00:00

I always go with, "I don't kiss and tell." It's cliche as hell, but women respect the fuck out if it and it pisses off men more than anything else. If you have an abundance mentality then you really don't need to share these things. Also, let the women do the talking. It's the same principle as to not brag about yourself, you'd rather build the mystery up.

urmyheartBeatStopR · 2013-06-03T06:21:54+00:00

You can amplify it.

Or

Jokingly say you're a virgin with a smirk on your face.

I do either one of those two.

puaSenator · 2013-06-03T08:27:23+00:00

Personally, I don't answer questions I don't find appropriate. I wouldn't say, "I never kiss and tell" because that still insinuates that you have. However, I also wouldn't say yes or no. It's just none of their business. I'd just probably say that I am becoming a preacher so that would be impossible. Just defuse the question all together.

I mean, unless it's like Emma Watson. Then in that case, say "Yes" because that's awesome.

MDT1221 · 2013-06-02T18:28:58+00:00

Honestly I just respond that I don't talk about my prior relationships, usually with a wry knowing smile and a wink.

DeeMore · 2013-06-03T14:01:43+00:00

I usually say shes the fourth girl. That number never really changes and I don't think about it much

kwastion · 2013-06-03T21:53:47+00:00

Why, have have you?

bacon_and_mango · 2013-06-04T10:06:00+00:00

I guess I misunderstood the question... I thought you mean that she was asking "haven't we sleep together already?"

:)

RedPosterboard · 2013-06-04T22:47:58+00:00

Why wouldn't you want to tell the truth?

IPlayUkulele · 2013-06-02T23:48:17+00:00

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throwaway_seddit_acc · 2013-06-02T18:39:18+00:00

"What do you think?" How about this instead of answering it straight away?

rikjames90 · 2013-06-03T05:08:53+00:00

You: "you would ask a question like that"

Her: whats that suppose to mean"

You: I saw you checking me out. I think its cute that you would ask a question like that.

Kiss her. Make a move

Title	What's the proper answer when someone asks you if you've slept with someone?
Author	zfinne
Upvotes	8
Comments	13
Date	June 2, 2013 5:46 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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