What's your style?

wyre2 · 2015-08-06T17:30:19+00:00

Frequency: 4-5 times per week
Improvement: I focus on my hobbies. This gives me a lot of self-confidence. I also practice pick-up a lot. Every night I go out, I try something different.
Style: Definitely direct but I'm really playful and focus on having good conversations

greatestaccounteva · 2015-08-06T19:15:57+00:00

Frequency: 2-3 times a week. To specifically find girls. I'm ready if one crosses my path everyday of course.
Improvement: Working out, working on body language, keeping life busy, avoiding negative things and people.
Style : Hard to pick a favorite. I do day and night. Direct or indirect is about the situation to me. I guess the dance floor is my favorite place.

MrLestat · 2015-08-06T17:20:01+00:00

Frequency: 2-3 times a week, often during other activities.
Improvement: Meditation, exercise, reading FRs to find stuff that could relate to me.
Style: No-bullshit kind, direct approaches.

SilentWhiz · 2015-08-07T19:50:09+00:00

Frequency: I started taking pickup seriously around November of last year. I scourged the streets, read plenty of material, invested a lot of thought into WHAT could be done, and HOW it was to be done. I participated in the Seddit approach challenge of January '15, and I approached a minimum of 3 -4 chicks on average every day of January. I continued through February and March, although my average dropped way below 3 - 4 each day. I ran into a bit of luck with social circle game, after which I firmly resolved not to play the commitment-game anymore, and to live through the foreseeable future as a free spirit. Ironically, not soon afterwards, another girl from my social circle cheated on her boyfriend with me, and soon fell in love. I keep my freedom, while satisfying her with sporadic but intense attention, and the occasional jungle-monkey-fuck-on-the-dinner-table. Nowadays, women seem to be falling out of the sky for me (introductions through social circles; I don't go out of my way to meet women on the street, but if I see one and I have the grooming and energy for it, I jump on it.)

Improvement: I've taken a break from hardcore sarging because, well, the intense workout period in January did something to me. I've got better body language, a better voice, exponentially better conversation skills, social intuition and humor. I'm in an open relationship with one girl, have got another FB, as well as a couple of dates lined up (out of the sky). But mostly, I can't describe it ..... but I don't care anymore. I don't feel a burn in my heart when people poke fun on me anymore - I engage them, and laugh with them, from the depth of my heart. I feel worthy of everything ..... yet not princely entitled. I guess after over a hundred sets of putting yourself out there for pant-wetting humiliation in public, something snaps. Nowadays, I've set myself reading assignments, everything from Introducing NLP and Man and His Symbols, Mother, A Hundred Years of Solitude and A Clockwork Orange, to Selected Works of Mikhail Lermontov and Beyond Good and Evil. Game isn't a miracle drug - it only acts as the vehicle to deliver the value that you have to offer. I have a taste for older women, and getting them requires something to compensate for the difference in the maturing experiences of age. Besides that, I meditate, I'm trying to get my academic life on track, and I listen to whatever obscure (and not so obscure) piece(s) of instrumental music crosses my path. I'm revamping my wardrobe, experimenting with different hairdo's, maintain basic hygiene and have gotten rid of my acne.

Style: Right now, I'm experimenting. I accept the liner nature of seduction as a fundamental truth, and also that its three phases ARE attraction, comfort and seduction. (Those who claim to have bypassed the first two into the third aren't necessarily wrong - the attraction and comfort phases could have lasted for mere seconds, or not at all. It's just a model to work with the general population.) I don't much, or really any, of the canned material out there - I've developed, and am developing, my own routines, stories and patterns, which are true to my life. Sometimes, I'll use them; other times, I'll make good conversation and actually come up with a new routine on the fly which I can use in the future. I make a conscious effort not to read PUA books anymore - I know the fundamental principles, I have a rough idea about the road the SeductionMobile has to take to go from A to Z, and I have an idea about the fundamental attitude(s) that drives the car. I go out into the field, I push till it's absolutely clear there's no chance of salvation, and then I analyze. I make an account of the events, I make notes of details, the conversation, my thoughts at the time. Then I theorize, and experiment some more. Sure, I crash and burn quite a bit - but I'd rather build an understanding to serve me, than be a mindless robot subservient to my primal needs.

And I make it a priority to enjoy and laugh. Sure, an excessive amount of "self-amusement" in my earlier sets killed my progress, but the more you keep at it, the better your humor becomes i.e. you develop intuitive calibration. And at the end of it all, I think it's better to laugh and enjoy everything, and be true to yourself ..... even if it means passing up a couple of girls along the way. Because if you're true to yourself and you pass up those girls today, you'll know tomorrow that you've passed up girls like "her" before. And that's how an "abundance mentality" becomes a part of you.

Title	What's your style?
Author	MrLestat
Upvotes	3
Comments	4
Date	August 6, 2015 5:09 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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