Why can I not get a 2nd date?

ThrowawayPUA · 2016-07-26T03:16:47+00:00

A man's reach should exceed his grasp.

glassuser · 2016-07-26T03:19:45+00:00

I was going to say "because you don't fuck on the first date"... but... yeah that doesn't really apply here.

The thing that comes to mind first is that you're breaking the normal date thought process and progression by being too forward. That is, it goes "off script" and they start thinking, start over-thinking, realize that a forward girl is a red flag, and stop thinking at that.

I bet you're saying instead of demonstrating, reading the script aloud instead of acting it.

You said you have a lot of trouble resisting hooking up on the first date. The implication is that you were doing it but told yourself that you shouldn't be doing it. Why not go back to playing that role and identifying patterns for what works?

Clyde_Frag · 2016-07-26T18:03:41+00:00

I disagree with the guys saying that sleeping with them on the first date kills attraction, especially since you said that you're not looking for a relationship. If the sex was good and you're pretty no guy will be against an FWB situation.

rmbarnes · 2016-07-26T19:36:56+00:00

Hmm. You'd have to go on a first date with me in order for me to fully analyse this problem for you. To be through, you'll also need to sleep with me at the end of the date. Of course, I'm only trying to help you here.

Zytinite · 2016-07-26T03:18:47+00:00

Play harder to get

Title	Why can I not get a 2nd date?
Author	miamipickup
Upvotes	0
Comments	20
Date	July 26, 2016 2:58 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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