I was just talking to my friend and ended up blabbing my whole sexual history, and it got me thinking about when I first started looking into speed seduction.

For me, I was pretty much asexual through high school. The summer of graduation exposed me to drugs, alcohol and sexy, flirtatious women. I was too nervous and well known as my former self at these HS parties. As soon as I got to college, I tried to establish myself as one of the party kings, gathering the groups, making the party, and acting as the Alpha male. But even though I brought the party, I was much too hyper and didn't attract anyone except sluts.

Speed seduction helped me calm down. Practicing it really helped me ingrain the concepts, to the point where I'm way more comfortable and confident. I'm talking more and more about sex, and talking about it more and more in a personal rather than seduction-style analytical way. It's infiltrated my thoughts.

So I'm curious, what got you into seduction?

P.S. I forgot to mention this cause it's a bit off topic, but the part that made me think about /r/seduction was this: I tried forcing myself to dance at freshman parties, but it was tough. I was nervous, but worse, it felt creepy and uncomfortable. Every single time I did it, I thought, "why am I doing this?" The few times the girl was slutty, drunk, or horny, and she would get a rise out of me or kiss me, gave me memories. I thought, "This is what sexuality is about. It feels good, and it feels good to have the single focus and lust of another person."

But I didn't, and still don't, like the randomness of it. Unless I throw around my verbal game and she responds interestingly, it still feels like a terrible game. Otherwise, I'm preselecting for the least picky.