I keep hearing people talk about how Tinder is like a magical app for getting dates. I've had it for about a year and nearly every conversation I have lasts for 3-6 messages then stops altogether. I've only come close to arranging 3 dates, 2 got cancelled by the girl for no apparent reason and 1 stopped replying after I asked her for a time to meet. Are people bullshitting about their tinder successes? I'm not hideous, all of my tinder photos are high quality and I have dated good-looking girls in real life. I only want to use tinder because people flaunt it as an easy fix. I now find it impossible to cold approach women since I've been traumatised and depressed in the last 4 months. Long-term relationships are also out of the question. If my age/location has anything to do with it I live in the North of England and I am 22, my range is between girls age 19-30.