Why You Need to Get Her to Stop Being Nice

MrEnthusiasm · 2011-04-06T23:14:09+00:00

Wooooah. Mind = blown.

This is exactly right. It's analagous to all the 'weak move' gambits of dating - any soft and ambiguous date or interaction that keeps plausible deniability and leaves an easy way out for the guy. Either succeed, or crash and burn. You want the girl, you have to be prepared to lose her.

Great article.

geneveve · 2011-04-06T22:02:25+00:00

The link isn't loading for me but I will use Nettik's comment as context and make an assumption about the article.

Initiating a conversation with a compliment is bad news! I immediately put up a shield and lose interest. It tells me nothing about you, does not engage conversation and comes off as really creepy. I'm already assuming that if you are intiating a conversation, you find me attractive.

hawktalk · 2011-04-07T07:00:22+00:00

Two things: 1) Did anyone notice the mugshot chick is holding the Lost numbers? 2) I love this website, always takes a different approach.

2011-04-06T22:30:14+00:00

Pretty useless article if you ask me.

hevnztrash · 2011-04-07T17:23:35+00:00

upvote for Adam Hughes.

Title	Why You Need to Get Her to Stop Being Nice
Author	insickness
Upvotes	23
Comments	11
Date	April 6, 2011 5:07 PM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/gk1c4/why_you_need_to_get_her_to_stop_being_nice/
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