I pretty much fumbled my first year of college and struggled with approaching, the reason being I would get too deep in my head and over think interactions and come across too needy. Since April I've been pushing myself working out, with good results. I focused on gym and sports (lot of hotties on track) and made a tight friend group who have helped a ton. Since summer my body count has went up with more dates and lays. Now whenever I face rejection instead of negatively dwelling on it I shrug it off and use positive momentum to move on to the next.