Would a gym date be weird?

NCForDayz · 2015-03-02T21:28:10+00:00

I've done it, although I didn't really treat it as a date. I just told her I'm working out tomorrow at __ and if she wanted to join me. It was more like a hangout. I don't think it is awkward.

DaygameCoach · 2015-03-03T03:31:51+00:00

Seems like something you do when you are already in a relationship...like grocery shopping. :)

mrsamdick · 2015-03-02T21:23:24+00:00

I've never done this myself, but it's been done.

If you're both confident at the gym then it shouldn't be any more awkward than a normal date.

caseym21 · 2015-03-03T03:26:41+00:00

Male that goes to a gym where guys bring chicks on "gym dates".

He's working overly hard to impress her, she's bored, and to the casual observer, he's an ass. Overall a bad idea.

Besides, afterward, do you both really want to be sweaty and stinky, if she works out instead of feeling obligated to sit there and watch you so she can talk in between your exaggerated grunts?

joshsway · 2015-03-02T21:31:23+00:00

it's ok, but usually I have found not that many girls go for it surprisingly.

JohnC53 · 2015-03-03T04:58:34+00:00

I did it once. Way weirder than I though. And it was a like our 5th date.

ale2h · 2015-03-03T22:58:37+00:00

I think it could work, but it all depends how you pull it off and you might end up friendzoning yourself as gym buddies. Why not just ask her out for drinks instead?

thekateruth · 2015-03-03T03:20:39+00:00

Girl here- yes, that'd be weird.

Zyklonzack · 2015-03-03T12:37:19+00:00

Generally speaking, girls like to look and smell nice for dates, so anything really physically demanding for early dates isn't a great idea.

She'll spend a lot of the time feeling self conscious and that will make her not like you.

Title	Would a gym date be weird?
Author	Kolbykilla
Upvotes	9
Comments	18
Date	March 2, 2015 9:17 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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