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What does she mean?

[deleted] · 2014-10-15T16:44:26+00:00

I'm still a noob at this but say; when you're going for sesh at the gym and you invite a girl. She asks you if your other friends are going too. Does...

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October 15, 2014

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Title	What does she mean?
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	3
Comments	17
Date	October 15, 2014 4:44 PM UTC (11 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/trpGAME
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/trpgame/comments/2jbxrc/what_does_she_mean/
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[–]Jessie_James 19 points20 points21 points 11 years ago (16 children) | Copy Link

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[–]Jessie_James 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

What do you think I should do now, keep complimenting her to let her know I'm attracted to her?

NO! Both are major fails. So what if she's pretty? So what if you like her? That's not attractive, it's desperate. You have to BUILD attraction, and you do it with actions not words.

What else does she have going for her? How can SHE prove herself worthy of YOU? You have to take her on a date and subtly make it clear that you are so high quality that you don't date any old chick just because she smiles and has tits.

Is she super fun to be with? Does she go out of her way to impress you? Does she do things for you? Does she cook you an awesome meal and then give you an amazing blowjob? Does she fuck you the way you like? Does she keep her problems to her self?

Or does she borrow money, make you pay her way, ask for rides, tell you all her problems, talk about other men, texts in front of you (on a date primarily), ignore you, is rude to wait staff, etc.

What is YOUR list of wants in a woman? My list is something liker 40 items long! Non-smoker, non-drug user, no crazy ex, tall, thin, blonde or brunette, great in bed, etc.

And most importantly ... she must be single. (Yeah, you can cheat, but why? I think it's pathetic. You can do whatever you want, but I want high quality women.)

Invite her on a date

Yes! Use the word "date" too, so she knows what is going on. Tell her something like "Hey, you seem pretty ok, let's go on a date. Thursday, 8pm, Mikes bar, we'll have a drink. Yeah?" If she accepts or accepts with a different time, you're golden. If she makes ANY excuse then she's not into you, politely drop all contact and move on.

and try to escalate

On the date, yes.

~~or straight up just~~ invite her to my place?

If the date is going good, yes, or for a second date (which insinuates sex, and you should go for it.)

But again ... this chick isn't single. She's using you, and you should drop her.

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[–]Jessie_James 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm happy to help.

One thing to keep in mind when you are starting out ... women who are taken will treat you like you are automatically in the friendzone. You will be learning backwards lessons with these women. Everything they do is tainted with "friend". You may as well be trying to hit on your mom, it most likely isn't going to happen. (For the record, once you get skilled, you can easily pick up on taken women, but wait until you know what you are doing!)

Among the first things you should do with any woman is ask if she is single. If she is, THEN the connection you can make needs to be geared towards asking her on a date as soon as possible and making a sexual and romantic connection. You will have a much more difficult, if not impossible, time doing that with women who already have boyfriends.

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[–]Jessie_James 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Got her # from a friend Saturday

Mistake #1. You should have asked her for her number directly (assuming you could, and I would like to assume that is always possible).

and we went to go eat Monday.

Mistake #2. You did not specify this was a date? Did you pay?

After some talk she wanted a gym partner.

Mistake #3. Do you think women go on dates and say to their GF's or themselves "Score! I just met the coolest gym partner!" and think it's a good thing? No, they do not.

At the gym I wasn't being serious and was joking around majority of the time.

Like friends do.

My thought process was to build more rapport and score on the weekend. Does it work like this?

No, the process is you ask her on a date, which indicates you want to get to know her in a romantic sense, and then if their is sexual chemistry you get to know her as a friend. When you do it the other way (friends first, like you are doing) you have completely removed the sexual aspect and are basically lying to her (and yourself) by not making your intentions clear from the start.

I see you replied below, I'll add more there.

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