What to say when —

ASeaOfQuotes · 2021-05-03T16:21:56+00:00

You never really want to answer the “what are you looking for” question first, because some men will be whatever you want them to be just long enough to sleep with you. Some good responses are “A gentleman goes first,” or “I’ll know it when I see it, what about you?” You turn it around on them and make them answer first. That way if they say anything you aren’t down with like hookups or “we’ll see where it goes,” you can block and delete without wasting your time.

As far as asking about the love life, I’d just straight up say that’s a weird question, or say “I don’t kiss and tell,” or “I’m a private person,” and reveal the bare minimum if needed, like if you’re divorced and have kids, it makes perfect sense to be upfront about that, but if he’s just trying to get a feel for how many men you’ve slept with, he ain’t it. It’s none of his business and never tell a man you’re a virgin if you are one.

starlight_sequence · 2021-05-03T16:24:56+00:00

Don't answer this question. It's none of their business.
Keep your response vague. Something like "Making connections" and then turn it around on them.

Hhjjuuy · 2021-05-03T20:02:17+00:00

Don't give men who ask weird, boring, intrusive questions the benefit of your time.

Determinedblonde · 2021-05-03T17:46:51+00:00

I hate those questions. I’ve always hated vague questions - why can’t they ask normal things like, do you have pets? Or, “how do you spend most Sundays?”

super_thinker_ · 2021-05-04T15:43:51+00:00

I don’t trust any man who asks these questions.

Title	What to say when —
Author	oleviking
Upvotes	20
Comments	6
Date	May 3, 2021 3:47 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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