We are in the tenth month of separation and I am filing next week. How do you men deal with vacations moving forward? My boys are in their early twenties, so it’s not as bad as say having little kids. But it still is going to be an adjustment. My stbx and my in laws are taking she and my boys skiing for a week in January. I am not going of course. But how do you guys deal with these changes? I realize the inevitable, but change is tough for me. I need to have faith and learn how to create memories for my new life.