You would be surprised how well these guys know how to love bomb you get you hooked and then do a complete 180 when you're financially tied together. I just found a book called "why does he do that?" There is a free pdf version online. I'd highly recommend everyone check ot out even if you've never been in an abusive relationship before. It will help you know what to look for and you'll be able to weed out these ass holes long before they have a chance to become abusive. Stay safe out there and if you're in an abusive relationship and need to talk feel free to DM me. Much love to all of you ♡♡♡