I’ve seen this so, so many times from other dating subs. Whenever some woman try to voice different opinions, some men jump out and smash some variation of the following things on her. And all other men applaud. They seem plausible, but are fundamentally illogical. And it annoys me so much. The false logic goes like this:

  • If you match with me, then you should message because why match if you don’t want to message? (Bumble version, where men can’t message first)

  • If you are messaging me, then you should say yes to a date because otherwise you’re just stringing me along and wasting my time.

  • If you’re on a date with me, then you should agree to sex because otherwise you’re just wasting my time.

Another similar one:

  • I’m gonna ask you out within my first 2 messages because if you say no, you are not interested and you will not be interested after 10 messages. So I’m saving my time.

The reason why they’re pure bullshit because they are all based on the following:

If you match with them, they think they deserve your message. If you message them, they think they deserve a date. If you go on a date with them, they think they deserve sex.

Don’t let them fool you by their ratshit fake logic. They ain’t deserve nothing.