We advocate for women to reject men for any red flags that come up on dates, because we are enforcing the behaviour needed to be in our presence. For some reason I thought this was good, because then men will eventually figure out how to treat us, right?

But no, now I'm thinking that the LVM we reject will keep being LV, despite mass rejection. The only difference being that they'll know how to better keep up their facade and for longer. Perhaps this is already common knowledge, but it's very disturbing to me and wanted to share nonetheless.

But now my question to you ladies is: Could a man who has dated a lot be a red flag?

Because if he was HV, he likely wouldn't have needed dated a ton, right? He wouldn't have been rejected constantly and have to pursue a ton of women. He would have a few longer past relationships and that's it.

Now I'm wondering what the solutions are. Not that it's our job to fix it, but I still find it interesting to ponder. I suppose the best way to get rid of LVM is to raise better men, and possibly promote HVM influencers.

Please feel free to share your thoughts!