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Pickmeishas attack in the comments

bitchyrussianbot

June 24, 2020
35 upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy

https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/heufch/update_how_do_i_ask_the_guy_im_hooking_up_with_to/fvtyrbn/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf

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Title Pickmeishas attack in the comments
Author

bitchyrussianbot

Upvotes 35
Comments 19
Date June 24, 2020 3:13 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/hf2qp2/pickmeishas_attack_in_the_comments/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/pickmeishas-attack-in-the-comments.697946
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Comments

[–]Gambit12345FDS Newbie58 points59 points60 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I read through the original post. That age gap though. I’ve seen it all the time and experienced it. Men/fwb treating you like a gf and the second you want to take it further with the title they pull the switch on you. If he were interested in her after all that time hanging, having intimate moments and not just sex, he’d definitely take initiative to ask her seriously on a date. Dudes in his 30s like come on. I feel this won’t end well for her

[–]bitchyrussianbotFDS Newbie[S] 18 points19 points20 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You just took the words right out of my mouth! I didn’t think OP was ready to hear about the age gap at this point though. She is all hyped up about this so called “date”.

[–][deleted] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If I read this correctly...the “date” is him coming to her house. She’s excited about that???

[–]bitchyrussianbotFDS Newbie[S] 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lmao she’s “happy beyond belief”.

[–][deleted] 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Jesus. The bar really is in hell.

[–]terribletimingtodayFDS Apprentice14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If a man was interested he would say he's interested. He would act on it.

Life is not a romcom. Yes, we are almost all conditioned to believe that men will be shy and not ask and just give him a million chances or benefit of the doubt or whatever...but the reality is if a man was interested in more he'd use his words to get more. They'll flirt and not want more. They may pull a move or two but not want more. They don't want more unless they clearly express they want more and then act upon that.

[–]whatsnotclickinggThrowaway Account2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Dude she’s been seeing him since fucking DECEMBER !!!!! How long does it take🙃🙃

[–]terribletimingtodayFDS Apprentice3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's getting all the benefit of relationship without having to commit or do the relationshippy stuff. He's got no reason to screw up that arrangement. If he wanted more he'd express it and work towards making it more...and he hasn't. In seven months.

[–]Jasmineof-AgrabahFDS Newbie0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I feel like you benefit a lot when you just don’t believe what men say, and just watch their actions

[–]Petra-24FDS Disciple21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Be careful! I find that I've just grown, not bitter, but yeah, a bit bitchy when it comes to pickmeishas. I just don't have the patience any more. Which is a bad thing, because I have to be kind and show humanity when talking to people who's views I want to change. It's impossible to change someone's view by being, harsh, attacking. I do that too much.

But it's important that they hear it. I think you did a good job at explaining and being friendly. I upvoted.

[–]bitchyrussianbotFDS Newbie[S] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Thank you! Just like you said, I try to approach them delicately, that way they are more likely to be receptive. It’s also important for us to comment and vote on threads like these, so people don’t continue to normalize pickme behavior.

[–]whatsnotclickinggThrowaway Account3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Its extremely hard for me to be kind to willfully ignorant people. Like TRULY, people that reply to the comments reinforcing their bad ideas? They don’t even want change.

“Please give me advice!!! But don’t suggest me doing the right/hard thing, anything but that!!!”

[–]whatsnotclickinggThrowaway Account3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think people need to stop being so sensitive. If you’re living with a killer and someone’s like “DUMB HOE GET OUT OF THE HOUSE RIGHT NOW!!” Then why does your harshness matter. You’re trying to help, why be kind if you desperately want them to change ?

Imagine if everyone were “harsh” to her, she’d see the gravity of the situation. Don’t tiptoe around her feelings, she’s old enough to be on reddit and she’s bound to get them hurt anyway...

[–]mi1km0onFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I’m sorry but is it wrong I laughed when she said they have a date and it’s, Dinner and her place? Wow what a date!

[–]bitchyrussianbotFDS Newbie[S] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She keeps blaming it on Covid, but we all know restaurants have been open for over a month now.

[–]blackredrosepetalsFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

cringe... this guy does not want to date her.

[–]EclecticBarbarellaFDS Disciple1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So basically now they’re going to have sex more and she’s going to cook for him. It’s been seven months if he wanted to date her, she’d know. I give it like a year before we see “AITA for accepting a date from my FWB, even though I knew I didn’t want anything long term with her? Now she’s pregnant and I’ve left her for the woman I really want to be with, it wasn’t supposed to be anything serious and she knew that”.

[–]bitchyrussianbotFDS Newbie[S] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She commented and then deleted that he allegedly tried to “do more romantic things” (no examples), but she was the one who wanted to keep things more casual. Yea ok.

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