Honestly I next every man that has instagram/snapchat but for the sake of political correctness, lets say that are guys out there that do have an instagram account but aren’t really active or only have it for business proposes. (For the snapchat: I literally can’t find a reason for a man to have one unless for receiving and sending nudes)
Here are some of the redflags that you should be looking for (feel free to comment any I might have left out)
_Just being very active on social media is in itself a Bright Red Flag. A HVM that has self confidence and a good life will not spend his time being active on social media. Simple as that
_Follows instamodels or a lot of girls he doesn’t know personally - that’s just LV and childish behavior. He sees women as objects.
_Constantly posts pictures of himself - What kind of man needs to post a lot of pictures of himself just to get attention? That’s extremely childish. Do you imagine a grown up man literally doing a photoshoot every single time he is going out? No. He is a child in need of social validation, next him
_Posts selfies by himself - I think this one speaks for itself. A man taking and posting a selfie by himself is very immature in my opinion (rare exceptions)
_Constantly likes every girl’s posts, specially the more seductive ones
_Posts a lot of stories - needs to showcase whatever the fuck he’s doing just so he can feel a little better about himself
_Has comments of girls with heart emojis and whatnot - meaning he is very flirty with a lot of women, it’s very weird to comment/send those emojis to anyone other than a gf/close family. Probably female “friends” he wants to fuck
_Goes and likes your old pics to get your attention - he does this so you can feed his ego by returning the favor. And he does it to a lot more women. Its a very low effort attempt to flirt.
_Slides in your DMs without knowing you - I will make a post on this
_Adds/ follows you without knowing you - when I went to college I received dozens of friend requests on facebook from older students. I dont know how they even knew my name. Interesting it was only men, not a single woman. They were probably all adding freshmens they thought they could eventually get with. When in the same year I understand, but older students? Yeah no. Very LV behavior.
Reading this list feels like it will be very hard to find a man that doesn’t do any of this. Yes that’s correct. Because most men fucking suck. Like it’s said here many times the bar is on the fucking floor. Still rather be single than with a LVM 🤷♀️
Every single on of this should be an instant block/next. Not because of the behavior itself but what it portraits about the man in question and future problems that could appear when in a relationship with them. Social media can be very useful to get to know a man. If he posts, what he posts, who he follows, is all very telling of who he is. And since most men are stupid they literally showcase on social media how low value they are. Be smart.
(Sorry for any mistakes English is not my first language)
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