He know what he's doing.

Avoiding_existence · 2020-08-20T16:16:54+00:00

So relatable! The first guy I dated was like this. He was leaving me on read for days, always cancelled last minute for plans, and was just generally very checked-out. I was getting tired of it but I still wanted to make an effort.

We agreed to go to a haunted house, I bought tickets a week in advance and he told me two hours before we were supposed to meet that he was going to a friend's house that night.

I got annoyed, took a breath, didn't even respond, and went to the haunted house with my little brother instead. We had a great time!!! This asshole texted me thirty minutes after my brother and I had gotten to the haunted house, saying he changed his mind, felt bad, and wanted to go. Called me several times, left voicemails, asked where it was and said he'd meet me there.

Three days later he texted me asking what happened, I let him know that I went with my brother and we had a great time. After that, I left him on read constantly until I just decided to block him since he was taking up space on my phone lol

throwaway631391220 · 2020-08-20T16:06:27+00:00

All those words and not one word about what he does bring to the relationship

husheveryone · 2020-08-20T17:09:13+00:00

“They will absolutely not say they do not want to do something, they will continue to dangle their possible participation like a carrot.” TRUTH. You know you’ve dated a narcissist when their ACTIONS frustrate plans and annoy you like that, but their WORDS say they want to get with you. 🤯

meat_brick · 2020-08-20T18:02:50+00:00

Hmm, I think my last boyfriend may have been a narcissist. It was the most rollercoaster relationship I've ever had. Pretty much everything on this list describes him.

He's blocked and my life is so much better without him.

dzgata · 2020-08-21T07:38:21+00:00

I think at this point most men are covert or blatant narcs.

Title	He know what he's doing.
Author	fancypantsdance92
Upvotes	66
Comments	10
Date	August 20, 2020 2:29 AM UTC (5 years ago)
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