Hey guys. First, let me say that I'm super glad this sub exists! Contemporary leftist culture is currently plagued by fauxgressives. Virtually all self-proclaimed "leftists" buy into some fauxgressive hype or another, particularly when it comes to issues concerning women, sexuality, and gender. This sub is a nice breath of fresh air and a much-needed backlash against the dominant narrative in leftist communities regarding the "patriarchy" and similar topics. I hope it stays up!

This post was made in response to a screenshot of rabid racist Stefan Molyneaux listing ways in which women are privileged over men. Their reason for my ban was "no brocialism":


This issue is one where I, regrettably, depart from my fellow "leftists." To give some background, I am a POC anarcho-communist, and a fervent egalitarian. Since I was a child, I've had a deep, seething hatred of social inequality. Now, I'm pursuing a degree in cultural psychology in the hopes of joining other critical psychologists to "challenge assumptions, values, and practices within mainstream psychology that help maintain an unjust and unsatisfying status quo" (Critical Psychology, p. 18), in order to make crucial changes in the field. I utterly despise conservatism, and the oppression it creates and upholds, with a passion and am in no way sympathetic or partial to conservative ideals. Let me also note that I have no idea who this Stefan Molyneux is.

As no one provided any elaborate refutation of the points raised in this tweet, it's obvious that the general assumption or consensus here is that these points are wrong. The top comment here merely states that the point relating to the "dating market" expresses a lot, without explaining what this means. Its child comments jubilate at frustration experienced due to "inceldom," which a cultural rather than individualistic (victim blaming) analysis reveals is resultant of sociocultural and political-economic factors that are beyond anyone's control as individuals (and which are incidentally responsible for all life outcomes). Such treatment, of course, of people who suffer due to the powerful social forces that shape all our lives is unabashedly antithetical to the leftist ethic, which eschews individualistic accounts of human society and behavior in favor of the sociological perspective, denounces macro factors that create social inequalities, and aims to unite with those harmed by these factors and ease their suffering. This treatment is characteristic of the behavior exhibited by conservatives, who celebrate social inequality, serve to maintain it, and harbor disdain for the oppressed. Thus, the ineluctable conclusion is that people who express these sentiments are not leftists. At the very least, these sentiments themselves are undoubtedly conservative.

Another string of comments raised the point that people in powerful positions (e.g., CEOs, politicians, bankers, military, police) are overwhelmingly men. This, however, is a red herring. As I explain in this post:

feminists often use indicators of patriarchy that are irrelevant to the common person (e.g. there being more men in the highest paid positions).

Clearly, since upward mobility has become increasingly difficult over the past couple of decades, the issue of male domination of top-paying positions is more a class than a gender issue, at least as it pertains to ordinary people. For us commoners, the obstacle to these positions is a matter of class, not gender. So, it is not indicative of a patriarchal culture in common society. (bold in original)

It is an error to assume that, just because the upper class exhibits patriarchal features, this must mean the middle and lower classes (common society) exhibit these same features. Clearly, it's possible for different groups to exhibit different features; they don't necessarily share all of the same features. That groups have distinctive features is what distinguishes them as separate groups. This is a very simple, commonsensical point that everyone can agree on.

The fact of the matter is that, in common society, women actually do outrank men in many of the indicators that were, in former times, used to indicate their subordination. As sociologist Arlie Russel Hochschild observes in "Male Trouble," a review of The Boy Crisis: Why Our Boys Are Struggling and What We Can Do About It, Healing from Hate: How Young Men Get Into—and Out of—Violent Extremism, and White American Youth: My Descent into America’s Most Violent Hate Movement—and How I Got Out:

  • boys far more often fail in school, are diagnosed with ADHD (and take medication for it, which carries a risk of depression later in life), play video games, become overweight, lack a driver’s license, get addicted to alcohol or opioids, become mass shooters, commit other felonies, go to prison, and die of drug overdose or suicide.
  • In 1970, 58 percent of undergraduates in four-year colleges and universities were male; by 2014, that had fallen to 43 percent.
  • Women earn more doctoral degrees than men and are now a majority of those entering medical and law schools.
  • Young single women are two and a half times more likely than single men to buy their own homes; single men more often live with parents.
  • In high school, boys receive 70 percent of Ds and Fs, are more likely than girls to be suspended, and are less likely to graduate or be chosen as class valedictorian (70 percent of whom are girls).
  • boys are less likely to enjoy school or think grades are important.
  • Boys born to mothers with lower education and income got lower grades, relative to their sisters
  • a shrinking proportion of men are earning BAs, even though more jobs than ever require a college degree
  • Among men between twenty-five and thirty-four, 30 percent now have a BA or more, while 38 percent of women in that age range do.
  • between 1970 and 2010, the percentage of adult men in a job or looking for work dropped from 80 to 70 while that of adult women rose from 43 to 58.
  • Powerful social and economic shifts, the impact of which remains unacknowledged, have “a lot more to do with [male] unhappiness (bold added)
  • never before have American men earned a declining proportion of BAs, while BAs lead to better wages

Clearly, the evidence demonstrating that, since about 1970 (when neoliberal economics began to gain powerful influence) women have been increasingly outperforming men in areas including mental health, obesity, drug/alcohol abuse, crime, suicide, education, financial independence, and work, is overwhelming. That is, it is undeniable. To deny, or even trivialize these issues is cruel. Hochschild's article recapitulates my point that sociocultural and political-economic factors account for this blatant social inequality. Again, the unavoidable conclusion here is that those who choose to deny, ignore, or trivialize these issues, or who mock those who bring them up, are not leftists. It is totally against the leftist ethic to have such a cavalier, or even disdainful attitude toward issues of social inequality. This is the hallmark of conservatism.

A tangential issue brought up in this comment string was that of the importance of sexual fulfillment compared to positions of power (e.g., president, senator), which was yet another red herring. First, just because mostly men hold these positions does not mean that they will favor and promote policies or actions that privilege men and oppress women. Politicians' policies with respect to privileging men at the expense of women are not a function of gender/sex. Instead, they're a function of political leanings. It is conservatives, regardless of gender, who promote policies that privilege men and oppress women; conversely, it is progressives, also regardless of gender, who promote more egalitarian policies. As gender is irrelevant to how power is used vis-a-vis policies affecting men and women, this issue is a non-point.

Second, due to our sex-crazed society, sexual fulfillment is, in fact, very important. As psychology professors David G. Meyers and Jean M. Twenge point out in Social Psychology (13E): "Even sexual activity is subject to social comparison. Adults who have sex are more often happier—you might have guessed that!" (p. 30). Meyers and Twenge reveal the important point that it isn't merely sex per se that matters, but also the social aspect of what having sex entails. Once more, to not only show such a lack of concern for the macro cultural factors that lead some people to become more sexually fulfilled than others, but to mock those who raise this issue, is antithetical to leftism, which deeply values social equality. In my humble opinion, people who do this are not leftist.

Above, I've demonstrated numerous ways in which the behavior of people in this thread, which as I noted reflects the general consensus here, does not at all reflect leftist values and instead is blatantly characteristic of the conservative ethos. Now, I'd like to highlight the ways in which modern feminism, while seeming to advocate for women's equality and liberation, actually has neoliberal underpinnings and serves to oppress them. In his brilliant work, Neoliberal Psychology, cultural psychologist Carl Ratner summarizes in a subsection titled "Neoliberalism is a Sexually Transmitted Disease: Hook-up Sex" the various ways in which female sexual activity in neoliberal society recapitulates neoliberal rather than egalitarian, liberatory, genuinely feminist values. As he explains, "the forms of behavior into [women's] personal, sexual encounters" include:

  • Estrangement—hook-ups reproduced economic estrangement. Boys and girls eschew personal intimacy and dependency, just as economic players eschew close personal ties to prepare for market interactions, fluctuations, and competitions. The point of market exchange is to sell and purchase the product as efficiently as possible. The hookup is impersonal from the start. The subjects are merely repositories of a product—sex—which is to be exchanged as efficiently as possible, without personal entanglements. Girls prepare to have sex with anonymous partners who are stand-ins for random consumers that producers attract on the economic market. Girls grind on boys whom they do not even see, and they use signs from their onlooking friends to decide whether to continue the grind or dispose of him for another anonymous consumer.
  • Volatility/precarity/temporality of social relations.
  • instrumentalism—using people for one's self-gain.
  • Egocentrism—fulfulling one's own desires while not considering the other's.
  • Commoditization—of one's self and body, and others' selves and bodies, to raise their exchange value on the interpersonal marketplace of status.
  • Branding. Selves and bodies are packaged and marketed in terms of their superficial appearance just as consumer products are. Consumerist branding permeates the sexual relation.
  • Material success of accumulating material products is more important than personal relations. This neoliberal economics is recapitulated in hook-up sex in the form of accumulating the number of physical, impersonal, sexual conquests. Conspicuous consumption of sex.
  • The need for rapid, frequent, hedonic, sensational, superficial sex leads to quick satiation of this need and equally quick rearousal. Continuous, multiple, superficial experiences replace a few, deeply satisfying experiences. Deep, psycho-sexual relationships come to feel heavy, complicated, demanding, and time-consuming. . . .
  • Success is defined as social status that is derived from attractive products, not from personal attributes of individuals. The narratives of girls and boys about their parties emphasize the selection of partners who are attractive to one's friends and thereby elevate one's social status, even when one does not like the partner. This recapitulates the social status that dominates consumerism of brand name consumer products. Opinions of others define success more than one's own fulfillment does.
  • Entrepreneurial ideology of success, independence, and strength/power. Hook-up girls accept the neoliberal entrepreneurial ideology of a free, autonomous, self-reliant, self-serving, self-defining, uninvolved, unrestrained, uncompromising, self-protective, emotionless, realistic, non-romantic businesswoman as emancipatory and powerful and successful. These behavioral/psychological attributes that are packaged in the entrepreneurial construct (by its founders in the Pelerin Society), are consumed by admirers of the ideal. This is neoliberal feminism that is promoted by neoliberals (Miller and Plencer 2018; Rottenberg 2013; Prügl 2014; Ferguson 2017; Pruchniewska 2018). (pp. 168-169, bold added)

Ratner's meticulous cultural, ethnographic analysis here demonstrates how the dominant sexual culture in our society does, in fact, (not-so-coincidentally) reflect and resemble our neoliberal political economy. In other words, it is akin to a market. Thus, any derisive comments in this thread about how some compare our society's sexual culture to a market are wholly invalid and without merit. These people are simply denying and mystifying empirically verified social reality. Unfortunately, this neoliberal feminism noted by Ratner is another example of conservative co-optation of leftist values. I would urge all of you to have the wisdom, and especially maturity to recognize which values promoted as "feminist" truly do serve the interests of women rather than neoliberlism.

That's all I have to say as of now about this. Again, I'm an anarcho-communist and die-hard egalitarian. The mere sight of any sort of social inequality infuriates me. I have no idea who Stefan Molyneux is, but from what I've read about him in this thread he seems like a horrible person. Regardless, the points I raised above remain valid. It is my hope that whoever reads this post does so with an open, patient mind. These issues are important. The truth is paramount and trumps any ideological or social commitments. As I've shown, the apparent consensus here in this sub is simply false. It needs to be critically reexamined.