I was courting this girl for almost 3 years without any sex because she was religious. I spent tons of money and time pampering her even when things weren't easy for her in her life because I thought I was investing in a nice future wife whom I loved. Eventually, she gets a new job with better pay and suddenly I am not wealthy enough (42k, it could be worse), then that mutates into every area--not attractive enough, not religious enough, and not good enough of a person, etc. She even told me all this stuff to destroy my self-esteem at the end? I never mistreated this girl at all. She even rationalized that God wanted her to find someone else? Who? WTF Then she threw it in my face that we didn't have sex, even though I tried to take things further more than a few times. I think to myself: “Really, I thought you didn't want to upset Jesus? Sorry for not raping you.” Is this a scam? Or classic hypergamy? I just started MGTOW a week ago. My faith took a hit because it now seems like a bunch of bs. Biology>Theology every time it seems. She still goes to church, but I don't want to ever go back.