Guy, 32 here. I work in a corporation and on a daily basis I see females acting in the following ways everyday. Can anyone relate to these?

  • If you're walking in a canteen they'll suddenly cut in front of you. You need to stop. Every time.

  • If you're in a crowded lift they will still just walk in. They don't give a shit. You touch them accidentally then it's your fault (hasn't happened with me though but it's about their attitude).

  • They gossip endlessly. If you're in the lift you hear them bitching about their teammates, or making fun of someone or the other

  • When it comes to sharing team workload they don't give a shit. They constantly get assigned the most insignificant tasks or usually lesser tasks than their male counterparts because of the sympathy "oh she's a girl. I don't want to trouble her much". And yet they do a sloppy job out of it, needing help constantly.

  • They take an unreasonable amount of leave. Deal with it. There's one who's on 2-months leave, one on 11-months leave and another on a 3-months leave at my workplace right now. Their workload falls on onto their teammates who're helpless for all these months. While she can happily take a loss of pay because she's not the bread-winner in the family.

  • There's one in my team who's always asking me questions. I'm happy to answer them because she's one person who's doing a really good job. But she also discusses a lot of personal life issues. As a friend I help her out with advices / reassurances. However, she doesn't reciprocate this personal thing in the slightest bit. Somehow she's always busy with something or the other.

  • I joined a couple of classes too, one-at-a-time and interacted with girls there. It's not been a positive experience.

TL;DR/Conclusion: As time is passing I feel the love I had for females draining. I can't help feeling that they're "bitches" and I want to avoid them as much as possible.