Man documents his DISASTROUS first ever Tinder date with a woman who behaved SO rudely that he fled the restaurant without paying or saying goodbye

HeForeverBleeds · 2018-01-12T17:49:50+00:00

The scary thing is that if she hadn't acted so rudely, if instead she had pretended to like him and pretended to engage, he would have fell for it and ended up paying for everything. Then she most likely would have ghosted him after the date ("Foodie Calls")

So in some ways, he's fortunate that she made it obvious that she was just there for the expensive food, so that he didn't pay for it. Some women are worse and will make him think she likes him until after he pays for everything

JStheHammer · 2018-01-12T17:57:25+00:00

First dates are coffee. Only.

WideExemplification · 2018-01-12T22:28:09+00:00

comments be like

NEVER go for dinner on the first two dates. A friend of mine had this experience in the UK time and time again. Tell them up front and that its Dutch when you do. A decent women who is interested in YOU will understand.

hm pretty good advice

Only once you are in a relationship.will you pay.

Uh crap. And here i thought he was all for equality

WillMeatLover · 2018-01-12T23:54:15+00:00

Why link to a dailymail article? Link me to the actual imgur story...

Nevermind I found it.

https://imgur.com/gallery/Cms50XZ

faggatron0 · 2018-01-12T19:35:15+00:00

If you're dumb enough to take her on a date, buy her a coffee and go for a walk

Starcitsoon2 · 2018-01-12T20:32:21+00:00

So exactly what women do? Why is this news?

Maelshevek · 2018-01-12T20:52:01+00:00

Title is pretty bad, and the dailymail is cancer, but here's my 2c.

It's poetic justice. She games him for an expensive meal and gets the bill.

Analysis and advice: -Her game was bad, I'm sure there are far more instances where a woman will play a man better than this and get away with what is basically a con. Disgusting. -She picked the restaurant. My guess? It was a unilateral decision. Yellow Alert. -He took her to a fancy restaurant. Women need to earn this kind of treatment. -He didn't play a long game. If women want meals, they will have to pretend for longer to get there. -Always discuss splitting the check before going out, or say that the check is split up front. Commitment test them. Or eat somewhere where you have to order separately.

HappySingleMan · 2018-01-12T17:38:45+00:00

Finally PROGRESS. Men are starting to respect themselves.

Jope-Ga · 2018-01-12T18:23:49+00:00

I would've looked her in the eyes as I ask for separate checks

This is a really good idea and I wish I would of known this years ago when I needed it.

iongnil · 2018-01-13T16:38:29+00:00

I apologise for my crude post but...

Fuck Tinder!

It's grim.

Leinadro · 2018-01-12T18:43:03+00:00

I'm not mad.

However there are 2 things I have qualms about.

If he picked the restaurant he should have picked a less expensive place for a first date. In fact for a first date I would have either cooked at my place and invite her over or picked a place well within my budget like a big chain stop (aka Applebees, Chili's, Olive Garden, etc...)
Even if the date was going down the toilet that is no excuse for him to not at least pay his share of the bill. When he bailed he should have at least had the courtesy of paying his bill and then ghosting out.

Cristoff13 · 2018-01-13T03:15:08+00:00

What he did was better than just paying for the whole thing, but it was still dishonorable (in my opinion) to leave without first paying his share. He should have just put down enough to cover his share, then left. Better yet, he should have told her right at the start when she ordered the overpriced starter, that he wouldn't be paying for her share if she was going to try and take advantage of his hospitality. Just state it matter of fact and stick to it.

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