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Trouble Feeling/being Supportive

LeggyBlueEyes
September 24, 2014
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Title Trouble Feeling/being Supportive
Author

LeggyBlueEyes
Upvotes 4
Comments 10
Date September 24, 2014 2:41 AM UTC
(11 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/RedPillWomen/comments/2hak2c/trouble_feelingbeing_supportive/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/RedPillWomen/trouble-feelingbeing-supportive.165780
https://theredarchive.com/post/165780
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Comments

[–]margerym 4 points5 points6 points 11 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

He has tried this career change before with no success

So basically he is playing?

He had a midlife crisis. Asked for a divorce.

So yeah, he's playing. He can't make up his mind. That's not a good thing. Why should you support indecisiveness? Take it to him. Tell him what is on your mind and why. Tell him you need him to explain Plan A and Plan B to you.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TempestTcup 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

I just can't seem to let go of my fear that this won't work out.

You have to either trust him and fully support him or you need decide if you want to be with a man you don't trust for the rest of your life. If you don't trust him now, you will never trust him. You might have to take a leap of faith on this one, swallow your distrust, and support his decisions.

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]TempestTcup 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's really hard to sit back and not be nervous when something big is happening that could possibly affect your life negatively. Think of it like being afraid of heights: your fear of heights actually makes being at a height more dangerous because you hesitate and make unnatural movements. You not trusting him and wholeheartedly supporting his efforts might jeopardize his chances with this change. He might be more nervous, second guessing himself, etc.

I would have a long conversation with him and help him map out his strategy going into this to maximize his chances of success. If he succeeds in accomplishing this, he will be a much more confident person and will be a lot happier with his life.

[–]TheTerrorSquadEndorsed Contributor 0 points1 point2 points 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

How can you possibly trust this man. After reading your history I am in no doubt this man is unreliable

[–]homo_homini_lupus 1 point2 points3 points 11 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

We aren't remarried

?

[–][deleted] 11 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

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[–]homo_homini_lupus 2 points3 points4 points 11 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

And now you are being unsupportive? You may need to give a LOT more details

[–]eatplaycrushEndorsed Contributor -1 points0 points1 point 11 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Remarried?

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