Dating strategy

vanBeethovenLudwig · 2017-02-21T23:28:32+00:00

I've done both. Dating around never seemed to work for me, all my LTRs have developed when there was no one else in the picture. I feel like it's more difficult to bond to one man if there's many in the mix.

loneliness-inc · 2017-02-22T00:37:26+00:00

one at a time [is] a better option

HelloNeo · 2017-02-21T23:05:14+00:00

Sounds like regular, traditonal dating. In regards to narrowing down your options, just simply let them know you don't feel a connection nor do you see a future with them.

onacasserole · 2017-02-22T04:08:29+00:00

This might be unpopular on RPW, but my vote is yes. When I was single I regarded myself as a free agent. This doesn't mean I slept with a bunch of guys (or led on guys who I wasn't interested in), but it does mean I went on dates and befriended a lot of guys. Doing this allowed me to not only vet lots of men quickly but also made me comfortable around guys AND gave me insight into the type of guys who are just players.

xelaandra23 · 2017-02-22T06:52:44+00:00

I usually have many "plates." It works for me. Some people can't relate to having many options or not being 100% ready to settle down, so they disagree with doing this. I think that it helps you realize what you like and don't like. If it's OK for red pill men to plate for sexual reasons, why can't we plate men for friendship, etc.? I don't see a problem with it.

Recently commented about this in another RPW thread and got mean responses (mostly from men who couldn't understand that dating doesn't equal sex).

Whenever I've discussed this with red pill men I get negative reactions and it's largely because they can't separate dating and sex. They assume you're a whore and that you're putting serious mileage on yourself/making yourself undesirable if you date a lot.

I firmly disagree with them on the issue and I don't think "plating" men has ruined me in any way. Men also can't relate to having as many options as women do, which is also why they don't understand "plating" from our perspective.

ElfFey · 2017-02-22T03:54:37+00:00

This is a great question. Personally, i am a "one man" woman. This has not worked for me, as i get overly attached to my single prospect, so I'm finally trying out dating multiple people.

[deleted] · 2017-02-22T04:35:56+00:00

I'm in a relationship but my preference is spinning plates. It doesn't have to mean you sleep with every man

I like not having to compromise or have obligations. If my relationship ends, I don't want another LTR. I'd rather date charming, fun men on my terms.

LOST_TALE · 2017-02-24T00:24:27+00:00

I think being straightforward and telling a man what you want (ex: wife and 3 kids)

is both good and time efficient. Source: Molyneux

somewhere mid to late in the video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GMqTNzEj9MA

Title	Dating strategy
Author	wangj2357
Upvotes	8
Comments	15
Date	February 21, 2017 10:45 PM UTC (9 years ago)
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