The REAL Value in Virginity

ElfFey · 2017-04-18T09:04:10+00:00

I think this is a good post. Especially because in western society, especially modern western society, most people are not virgins when they get married. I want more women to embrace the rpw mindset, but I think the rp emphasis on virginity turns women away.

I read some sex advice once that said every time you have sex with a new partner, you should embrace the mindset of a virgin. You should adopt that mindset of being shy, excited, and protective of yourself with every new partner.

mwait · 2017-04-18T14:44:30+00:00

Men want loving, loyal, and supportive women

Fixed.

This is, above all else, what men are looking for.

Landry86 · 2017-04-18T21:37:37+00:00

Virginity is very valuable because once you lose it, it becomes extremely difficult to marry a masculine man. A non-virgin RPW will try to make her next mate wait until marriage but he will wonder why she is making him wait but put out for another man before him...

Taburn · 2017-04-18T09:14:31+00:00

"Virginity is a quick way to judge if a man will be able to mold you into the woman he wants you to be"

This struck me as odd. I'd rather be with a fully formed person, not someone I can control to the extent that I can mold them.

LifeHasLag · 2017-04-18T14:05:29+00:00

I appreciate the post! Even in a religious context too, I believe you're right that virginity has more value outside sex.

Banincoming · 2017-04-18T14:32:39+00:00

Not PC, but how I subconsciously rate:

Virgin- Don't expect it, but a nice thing

-5 What I expect in our "modern" times

10+ Means casual sex, a hard sell for her

20+ Plate

40+ Nope

nozmi · 2017-04-18T15:27:32+00:00

This is a nice little story about what men value about virginity, but it doesn't tell a woman what she will get from remaining chaste or applying a man's rules to her life and choices.

What incentives do women have to bend to certain standards (like this cult virginity on reddit?)

Not to be rude, but if I wanted to read what men want i would go to a men's forum. I'd much rather read what women want and what they are actually getting out of waiting/being chaste.

teaandtalk · Tue Apr 18 5:28:31 2017 UTC

Solid post. I'd get rid of the 'guy here' bit from the first line, but then it's great :)

bowie747 · 2017-04-18T06:16:57+00:00

It's like buying a new car.

If I have the money, I'd prefer a new car - my own car - than one with 20 previous owners.

Title	The REAL Value in Virginity
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	17
Comments	23
Date	April 18, 2017 5:09 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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