Doormat vs. wgtow

LateralThinker13 · 2019-09-30T14:31:31+00:00

This is unhealthy black-white thinking. There are a LOT of positions between unbearable feminist shrew and asexual female - or passive victim female, too.

Like, 90% of the population.

Read the sidebar. Develop an understanding of the difference between doormat and submissive, and between Leader and Tyrant. Learn about the Captain/First Officer dynamic.

my_chopin_liszt · 2019-09-30T14:38:54+00:00

Let me ask you a question. Do you take the highest priority in your health and wellbeing? In terms of your emotional, mental, physical aspect of your life seriously? If not, then it’s easier for you to become a doormat.

This is why you said in the past you allowed men to treat you poorly. Any women who value their wellbeing simply won’t tolerate it.

HB3234 · 2019-09-30T19:26:48+00:00

Your self respect has nothing to do with feminism. Traditional wives who believe a woman flourishes in the home and thus choose to stay home, have healthy self respect. They respect and honor their beliefs about what is best for them by living their values. A feminist who believes having a career serves a woman best and thus has a career, also has self respect. She is doing what she feels is best for herself, just like the traditional wife.

People with self respect do what they think will serve them best. They may be wrong about their ideas, but they are working toward their best interest (as they see it).

When you allow a man to make you feel bad, are you serving your own interest?

Kara__El · 2019-09-30T15:33:29+00:00

Assertiveness and politeness are not mutually exclusive. You can absolutely tell a man "No, thank you. I'm not drinking right now," with a sweet smile. I remember when my husband and I had been dating for a few months and went to the fair for the first time. A man was selling leather conditioner and was being quite aggressive about trying it out on my leather purse. I stood my ground and told him "No. Thank you. I'm not doing that." I said it repeatedly and he pushed harder each time, before finally giving up. Just remember that you don't have to do anything you don't want to do and being pleasant about it will unquestionably have the same result as being bitchy about it... except people like you more.

hisangelforever · 2019-10-01T20:19:08+00:00

I think you've asked an amazing question.

There are lot of blurry lines in RPW. Like being a doormat and being feminine is a big problem of mine, where to draw the line? xx

[deleted] · 2019-10-06T21:12:25+00:00

Why is being a doormat a bad thing? Why is not being a doormat a good thing? If you're not a doormat then what are you? If you're not that then are you guaranteed to be a doormat? You're asking about something that is a lot deeper than just A or B.

jfiscal · 2019-09-30T15:32:35+00:00

Tbf wgtow isn't unhealthy feminism, it's just stupidity

Title	Doormat vs. wgtow
Author	bchlladyfrog
Upvotes	21
Comments	25
Date	September 30, 2019 2:06 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/RedPillWomen
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