Red Pill and Relationship Game

dmahan · 2013-04-07T19:26:38+00:00

It's simple, get some hobbies or spin plates, but I doubt you're going to want to spin plates, so go find something that you want to spend a lot of time on.

5F42DE47BC · 2013-04-07T23:43:55+00:00

She's 37 and still dating. She likely knows the score. Dread game should be cake, at least easier than with a 20 year old.

Deansdale · 2013-04-08T09:17:56+00:00

Actually some beta is not all bad, it can be comforting for the GF. Just show alpha as well. See this for reference. Contrary to popular belief men do have feelings, and let me tell you, it is a huge boost to happiness if you can show these to your loved ones without the fear of being dumped for being "too beta". A genuine emotional connection is worth any work put in a good alpha-beta balance.

Need to try to fix those blue pill feelings.

Having an emotional connection is not a "blue pill feeling". Don't try to turn yourself into a robot. It is natural to miss your loved ones. There is a certain rigidness and coldness in our world towards real human emotions and the red pill community is no exception. Having feelings is not a weakness, it can be a source of power and joy in your life if you learn how to live them.

I'd also like to be able to throw in some Dread Game but really don't know how to do it

I would advise against it if you two have no apparent problems in the sex department. It has its own risks which are only worth taking if there's a problem to fix. You say you don't know how to do it... If it is so, then you can easily fuck things up accidentally. Do you actually need to radically up the alpha? If not, don't do it. Try less risky methods instead if at all possible.

30303030303030 · 2013-04-07T20:16:21+00:00

45 minutes?

She can drive that distance easily. And get busy with work, go work out. If you think about her a lot even though you've got sex every weekend you probably have to much free time. I know that was the case when I was needy.

2013-04-07T20:24:03+00:00

Spin plates and practice game but don't actually do anything with it. It keeps your skills sharp and your ego chuffed.

harmonylion · 2013-04-08T00:06:09+00:00

Emotional Kung Fu for Men

RedHonest · 2013-04-08T18:00:50+00:00

Just remember there is one big difference between relationship game and standard game: You love her, and she loves you. So it's okay to be sappy from time to time, but I'd still follow the 2/3rds rule.

Your time away from her actually increases your value to her, but avoid "pouring out your feelings to her". That is always beta.

Not sure of the consensus on this, but I would avoid saying things like "I miss you." From a woman's point of view, the loves you to the degree that she sees you as having higher value than she has. Women love saying "I miss you" because it's a form of submission, and indicates relative lower status than you. But when a man says it to her girlfriend, it indicates the same thing, but this causes her to lose feelings for you. Just like standard game, keep her between rejection and validation.

fingerwringer · 2013-04-08T03:29:45+00:00

....in a 1.5 year relationship you really think it's still necessary to be playing these kinds of power games?

sounds like you're insecure. telling your partner you miss them because you only see them around once a week is not a sign of weakness. it's a sign that you care.

man up bro.

RcskaSedd · 2013-04-08T01:12:02+00:00

i suggest getting a dog and learning some stuff from the dog whisperer, as a hobby. because it is healthy, strengths your leadership skills and is also attractive.

2013-04-08T13:44:48+00:00

Try to find a thing, a picture or a symbol, perhaps something like a RP idol picture that could constantly remind you of being RP with her.

mykart · 2013-04-08T16:13:36+00:00

You can't fake dread game, you have to do things or think a certain way that she would have a reason to dread about.

Title	Red Pill and Relationship Game
Author	jacksfrost
Upvotes	10
Comments	26
Date	April 7, 2013 7:11 PM UTC (13 years ago)
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