Prologue: I'm new to a city and don't have many friends. My roommate invited me to a lakehouse for the weekend and I decided to join. There was about 15 people there and I literally knew no one except for my roommate. There was about 3 cute girls out of the 15 people and about 8 dudes. I had every intent of getting laid but obviously it is a little more difficult with meeting people for the first time. This field report is meant to show some of the techniques I used to get over the hurdles I jumped over.

The Weekend

Introductions 1) Right of the bat, a specific girl (let's call her Jenny) caught my eye when I introduced myself to each one of the 15 people I met. I acknowledged everyone, but when I met this specific girl, I maintained eye contact a little longer than what is comfortable with most people. She did the same. This basically subtly showed my intent with her.

Increasing SMV/Group Perspective 2) I decided that I would cook for everyone that night. Some people would come and thank me and were grateful, and I was appreciative of their support. Others would come and tell me how to cook and I would tell them to (subtly) fuck off and they could tell I wasnt having it (almost like a group shit test, by both guys and girls). By the end of dinner, everyone was grateful for dinner and I had shown the group that I am a contributing member. This increased my perceived SMV across all females, Jenny included.

Maintaining Interest I 3) During cooking, there would be music playing and I would go and dance on the girls. I gave a little more attention to Jenny. I used eye contact. I kept touching her whenever I could. I wanted to maintain SMV.

The First Move 4) I saw Jenny go upstairs and I followed. At this point I felt my perceived SMV was high enough with her. She was using the bathroom. On her way out, I pretended to need to use it too and squeezed myself next to her pretending I cannot get through. I got closer and closer to her and kept saying "excuse you're going to have to let me through here". As I got close to her face, I kissed her. We made out for about 30 seconds and then she told me to go to the bathroom. I did.

Maintaining Interest II 5) The rest of the party, I touched her but ignored her for about an hour or so. I noticed she left for the bathroom again. I followed her and asked her to follow me to the other house the family owned (rich family). Started making out on the rooftop and started fingering her. She took off her panties and we fucked for a while. I did not cum, this bothered her (whiskey dick). After a while I said lets get out of here. At this point I felt I kind of hurt my SMV by not busting on her.

The Hard Part 6) Now til this point, I dont think having sex with her was difficult. Having sex with her the next day after being sober and not cumming the night before would be more challenging, I knew. So this is where I played a little dread game and started letting the other girls get close to me. I flirted with other girls and got cozy with a specific girl that I knew had some intentions with me. After about an hour or so of that, I saw Jenny and pulled her to the side to talk.

The Part I Feel TRPers would miss out on 7)I told Jenny that even though it was just a one night thing, I really like her and what she stands for. I was not lying either - I pointed out what I liked about her, including her fantastic ass and the way she eye fucked me and how I like how she isn't annoying like the other girls. This was a MAJOR boost in her interest to me. By this point, it was getting close for me to leave and she kept begging me to stay another night with her. I told her I have to leave and did not cave into her request (I literally could not stay, I am sure I would have fucked her had I stayed though).

Moment of Truth 8) Moments before I left, when I thought I had lost my chance of boning one more time before leaving because I did not stay the night, she asked me to follow her up stairs. She took her clothing off right away and I threw her on the bed. She gave me head, got me hard, and I fucked her hard.

The end.

Lessons applied/learned:

Dread game

Using the group to increase SMV

Dealing with group shit tests

Eye contact

This was my first FR so any feedback would be appreciated. I hope some of this is valuable to you guys.

Edit: The questions and points you guys are addressing are great. I've really enjoyed this conversation :)

Seizeforce asked a great question which led me to realize I was practicing another key TRP mindset: outcome independence

My end goal this entire weekend was to have fun regardless of whether I get laid or not. This mentality does wonders. It should be applied it all parts of life. I recommend getting into mindfulness thinking and perhaps even meditation to help yourself be more self aware. This will lead you to make decisions for yourself rather than others.